Articles titled like this make no sense. They are so misleading.
We had a month of Sunday School lessons on the Crazy Cycle and how to get out of it. Read
this blog entry for more details.
Essentially, relationships are reactions. If a wife reacts without respect, the husband reacts without love, she reacts without respect, he reacts without love, and it's a downward spiral. You see what I mean.
To get out of it, someone has to choose to react WITH something. Husband reacts with love, she reacts with respect, he reacts with love, she reacts with respect, and it only gets better.
This is a simple diagram of the Crazy Cycle. Don't let it happen to you and your marriage or any other relationship!