Me & my honesty
"You are so honest and blunt" I hear that often - as a complaint
I would never have called me honest person. I'm not! You might think so because -the truth :)- I think I'm good in lying. You don't know the bunch of lies I tell you every day. I mean in real life. I gave up feeling guilty it's like eating for me.
Mum: "You have to go to bed at 21:30"
Me: "Okay" *smiles*
~ next day ~
Mum: "You look tired. When did you go to bed?"
Me: "22:00 just tired because you woke me up before 11:00pm"
[Why I didn't say 21:30? Itwould have been way to obvious. Rule in this: admit you stayed up longer than you should have so ½ or 1 hour. They will be angry! Yes, but not as much as if you tell them the truth. If you tell them you went to bed at 02:45 they will be a vulkano. You slept 3½ hours of course you look tired. So just go to bed at the right time and sleep 8-9 hours. It will let you look older and not so attractive if you have less sleep. When you are still a kid you will grow slower or don't at all because you grow while sleeping.]
All these things, then I lie and I don't look guilty I think
If it comes to opinions I'm honest. Since I was told my honesty can be hurting I really try not to hurt you if it's not necessary. Hurting someone - necessary? Pain is never necessary try to avoid it! I do by hurting them I actually try to protect them. Sounds strange? Yes, but it's the truth.
*planning to go somewhere*
Friend(s)/Relative(s): "How do I look in this dress?"
Me: "I think you should change. It doesn't really suit you."
[I know whoever really likes this dress and will be hurt by my comment. But I think people are not blind and I don't want them to insult her. It's better somebody you are close to tells you such things than others being mean to you. Won't she be pissed at you? You were really rude! Possible but she's pissed at me, so it stays only me. Couldn't you have told her she looks good if you know that she otherwise would be hurt? No, I won't lie to a relative/friend. Even if it would make her happy. Of course I could hope others are just idk wrong and tell her she looks good when they think the same as me. But what are friends for?]
So well if it comes to that I straight speak my mind. That's not very charrming my mum says
Being polite/inpolite
I don't know. I think theat doesn't so really exist.
Englishman: "Would you like to have your tea with sugar or milk?"
Me: "No, thank you. I don't want sugar&milk in my tea / No, thanks I don't want tea."
I'm being inpolite in my teachers eyes.
I think I'm inpolite if I tell him I want sugar&milk/tea but I don't. Please lying is never polite.
Whoever: "You look good today! :)"
Me: "Aww, tank you"
[I guess in some eyes I'm inpolite because I don't compliment back. 'You just do that it's nice.' Yup, I always wanted people to lie to me, very polite ;) Look, I didn't say something bad. I just said nothing. This is my trying not to hurt you - being polite]
Thank you for all your kind comments on my other entries they are very encouraging :D