thought of the day...
heres a thought for all of u deep thinkers out there....PEOPLE WHO SAY UR FRIENDS, OR SAY U R STILL FRIENDS AFTER SUMTHING HAPPENS....BUT THEY PROVE THEMSELVES TOOOOOOTALLY WRONG! why yes, i do kno people like that! thank u for asking u polite dear! it is upsetting, and under those circumstances we are forced to move on, but r we really forced to forgive and forget?? the answer is....NO! WE ARE MOST DEFINITELY NOT! but....BUT....for our own personal well being and mental health (which i obviously have very little of), we SHOULD. no, this is not an easy task, but it is a noble one, and a step in the right direction. the person who "did u dirrty" is most likely a scum bag and is very un-happy w/ him/herself and has a problem being up front and telling u y they no longer want to be chummy w/ u; maybe they are afraid of hurting u, but either way, that person does not have the coj**es 2 tell u they no longer wish 2 be honored w/ ur friendship. it is hard to offer the olive branch and have it snapped in ur face, i kno. its hard to think that sum1 is ur friend, knoing u truly care for that person, and then watch them drift away, or cut u off all together. its happened 2 all of us, and i suspect we have all done it in one way or another. maybe u can remember a time u've done this 2 sum1 and u feel guilty, or maybe u remember and don't care. maybe u remember a time u did that 2 sum1 and only wish u could have done things differently. maybe u can't remember ever doing that 2 sum1. i, for one, do remember a time when i committed this crime against sum1 else, and i can specifically remember two times when i thought sum1 wuz str-8 w/ me and they weren't. yea, i act out from time to time and im more upset about it than i let on so instead of letting out my frustration in a more resourceful way i say things i don't always mean or wish i hadn't said later. im sure we all feel this way from time to time. to the people i hurt, i should've done things differently, though im sure i got the desired outcome, and to those people who have deceived me and snatched their friendship from me, w/e...wut can i say...it wuz ur choice and u shoulda just come 2 me. so for all of my readers....2day is a day of forgiveness. its easy to remember and hold on to hurt, but its hard to forgive and move on. as the non-conformists that we claim to be, we should take the high road and go against the current. we need 2 be better than those who have hurt us or made us feel insignificant. we need 2 stand up and prove that we are worth more than those who hurt us thought. in the end, u ARE the better person. and also, NEVER forget to ask for forgiveness....if not from the person, ask it from God. but also, forgive urself and promise 2 carry urself in a higher standard the next time. be4 anyone else can be happy w/ u, u need 2 be happy w/ urself.