Honestly I deleted you because I didn't like that you were willing to do that, Like I said I've never had any problems with you, or Julie, or Chantale but to me I didn't like it. I didn't want to get involved in anything else, but I felt that Sarah had a right to know that her privacy might be invaded, especially since Julie made such a big deal about her viewing her profile but was so willing to see her private entries. Not justified in my opinion.
I deleted Julie because she asked me to delete myself, I wasn't going to "come forward" in her entry because I didn't feel the need to, she knew it was me. I deleted Chantale because Chantale and Julie are sisters and Chantale always sticks up for her sister. No problems with that, but I didn't think Chantale would want me around after I "backstabbed" Julie.
I'm sorry that Sarah started drama on your page, it was not my intention for more drama to fuel but I don't have control over what she does or who she comments on. I simply told her what I felt needed to be told.
About the in confidence thing, it wasn't you I was talking about, it was Julie who seemed to think it was okay to let loose on secrets that Sarah told her, in confidence. Whether they are friends or not anymore, that is wrong. I wouldn't do that to anyone.
I deleted Julie once before because of too much drama, I re added her because she's a good person but I just don't like drama.
yea, i don't know Chantale. and i'm not going to take sides, although i'm pretty sure i made it fairly clear on my page how i felt about things. and i don't figure it was your intention for her to start drama on my page. and i'm not at all mad that you told her, personally, yea, she can know, thats fine with me. but idk i'm just the type, even in real life if someone is talking shit about one of my friends, even if it's another friend, i am going to stick up for them. i personally had nothing against Sarah, (although i don't like all of the things she does, but thats beside the point)until she started a whole shit ton of drama on my page. that was the breaking point. and i still wasn't going to delete her. i trust too much that things will blow over, i guess.
I understand. It isn't my intention to take sides, that isn't what I am doing, and I understand that if you see one of your friends being talked about you'd want to let them now, you're defending you friend and I can understand that, and I understand you being upset that she came to your lj and started drama. I don't condone drama in the littlest bit, but like I said I would have done it for anyone, if the shoe was on the other foot and you would have told Sarah that you'd C&P Julie's entries I would have told Julie, do you see what I mean. It's the invasion of privacy that really bothers me.
Like I said, I never had a problem with you before, I think you're a great girl and I always like having moms on my friends list because I have something in common with. But as someone who values their privacy, it's bothersome. I'm sure you understand.
I very much value your honesty though and I appreciate the fact that you've been very civil. I hope you understand that I wasn't trying to offend anyone on my post, simply expressing my opinion about the event.
i didn't think you were trying to offend anyone, and maybe we can be friends later down the road. i think for me a lot of it, was seeing Sarah say other things on her page before, not that that condones anything, but i'm human, and thats how it is. and there is no reason to not be civil, but i can't just let people walk away with absolutely no explanation, even if it is the internet..
Well you know, most people wouldn't be civil about this, which is why I appreciate it, and most people usually don't know what to make of people who are honest about things. I understand 100 % where you are coming from and I have no doubt that we could be friends down the road, I'm sure once a lot of the steam blows off it will all be forgotten.
I deleted Julie because she asked me to delete myself, I wasn't going to "come forward" in her entry because I didn't feel the need to, she knew it was me. I deleted Chantale because Chantale and Julie are sisters and Chantale always sticks up for her sister. No problems with that, but I didn't think Chantale would want me around after I "backstabbed" Julie.
I'm sorry that Sarah started drama on your page, it was not my intention for more drama to fuel but I don't have control over what she does or who she comments on. I simply told her what I felt needed to be told.
About the in confidence thing, it wasn't you I was talking about, it was Julie who seemed to think it was okay to let loose on secrets that Sarah told her, in confidence. Whether they are friends or not anymore, that is wrong. I wouldn't do that to anyone.
I deleted Julie once before because of too much drama, I re added her because she's a good person but I just don't like drama.
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Like I said, I never had a problem with you before, I think you're a great girl and I always like having moms on my friends list because I have something in common with. But as someone who values their privacy, it's bothersome. I'm sure you understand.
I very much value your honesty though and I appreciate the fact that you've been very civil. I hope you understand that I wasn't trying to offend anyone on my post, simply expressing my opinion about the event.
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