I know EXACTLY how you feel Mike. That's why I've been crazy with going to meetings and sacrificing my precious me time to hang out with other people. Hoping against hope that this one club I'm joining isn't too hardcore that they don't like me and stuff. I was worried that I was sacrificing who I am in order to be liked by the other people on the floor, but in reality I haven't really. It's just my dorky side will come out when I'm with other people than them. Still, it is kind of lonely when the girls aren't around and neither are Chip, Satan, Dave, or the "less cool" guys I tend to hang out with.
I was hoping that when I came to college I'd find people who share my strangeness, but so far all I've got is the English Honor Society that I can't be inducted to yet.
Try to tough it out; there will be good times and bad, and don't worry, there's tons of people on campus you haven't even met yet who are probably Pitt versions of us. At least that's what I'm hope here anyway. I met one guy who kind of reminds me of you in a weird way, but I've only talked to him like twice. Lol.
Sorry for the novel of a comment, but I'm just relieved that someone else feels the way I do sometimes. Of course, I want us both to go out and find some awesome new friends who will be great but never take the place of our old ones. :)
Ahhh! STOP BEING SAD! We have to focus on the positive - things may not be easy for some people at first, but I'm sure you'll end up being fine. Loneliness is a state of mind. Everything's a state of mind. Think of it that way. LOL. I don't make much sense.
I was hoping that when I came to college I'd find people who share my strangeness, but so far all I've got is the English Honor Society that I can't be inducted to yet.
Try to tough it out; there will be good times and bad, and don't worry, there's tons of people on campus you haven't even met yet who are probably Pitt versions of us. At least that's what I'm hope here anyway. I met one guy who kind of reminds me of you in a weird way, but I've only talked to him like twice. Lol.
Sorry for the novel of a comment, but I'm just relieved that someone else feels the way I do sometimes. Of course, I want us both to go out and find some awesome new friends who will be great but never take the place of our old ones. :)
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