This is why you're single: johnscs28

[harumi]

I've decided to just start posting the interesting conversation I get from idiots on OKC. I won't do much commentary on them, I'll just let the things speak for itself. Here's the first one:

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[manekikoneko]

I don't know if that's how OKC means "activity partners" but I suspect a lot of guys think of it that way. Euphemistically, like "casual sex" is too direct and skeevy, but "activity partners" implies you might go to a movie first. Also, there are probably fewer women with "casual sex" listed than "activity partners".

I think men don't want girls who want one-night stands, necessarily, because they don't want to feel rejected. It's fine if they're the ones not calling the girl back, but god forbid the girl be content with just one screw. I read some interesting stuff on Hathor Legacy a while back that really rang true, about how often men don't "see" the women they reject. They'll complain about how women are all bitches who never give them the time of day without noting that they themselves are the common factor in all those interactions; and they ignore all the women who might approach them that they don't consider good enough (i.e. model hot), and all the women they never approach because they don't consider them worth their time. They end up living in this bubble of male privilege where beautiful women either capitulate to their demands or are labeled bitches, and everyone else is invisible or actively insulting them by not being attractive.

[harumi]

Yeah, male privilege. His entire thing was filled with it. And the guy probably thinks I'm a bitch just because I didn't automatically for his endless charm.

I've noticed guys never do notice the "ugly girls". And then they also label the ones who reject them as "ugly". It's so childish I'm surprised any man has ever found a willing woman.