friggin GAHHHH!!

[harpoon_me]

god, nathan... he's such a retard!! he's dating, and in love with, this girl janie... she has a fabulous track record

• "testing" him by having her best friend hit on him
• pressuring him to smoke
• canceling dates because he's in a "bad mood" or because she doesn't think she can get any
• raping him
• pressuring him to have sex (separate from the rape) several times
• making strict 'rules' he has to follow, when she's allowed to do anything
• canceling several dates in a row
• begging/manipulating him into having sex when he doesn't want to
• lying to him
• and cheating on him

i'm probably leaving something out.... but yeah, that's janie for you. and naturally, he's head over heels for her and refuses to break up w/ her. he remains convinced that any time now, she'll settle down and they'll live happily ever after, and that he can't judge her for it because she's human.  human?! she's a fucking bitch!! and yes, part of this is coming from jealousy. i'll admit that straight out. why does she get him when i never did ANY of that stuff? but mostly im just pissed. god, i want so much for him to be happy. i want him to fall in love and get married and live happily ever after with a girl who loves him, and treats him like it, and not a girl who treats him like a human dildo and nothing more. not me, probably, as much as i love him, i dont think i can go back. but someone who isnt a fucking BITCH. she's not going to quit, either, as much as he wants her to... she's going to keep going, because the only punishment she's getting now is his pain, and clearly she doesn't give a flying fuck about that. grrr... i just want to make a decency squad and knock off all the world's jerks. gahhh. i hope he dumps her, but since he wont, i hope she dumps him. it would make all sorts of problems for me, but idc. it would hurt him, but not as much as she is, has, and will if it doesnt stop. and it wont. he's kidding himself. it won't be happily ever after, and the sooner he gets the fuck out the better, but i have no idea how to convince him of that.

seriously, people, i want advice. i dont care who you are or what it is, just give me some advice. what the hell should i do? how can i help him? how can i convince him that she's bad news and it's never gonna change? if you're reading this, please. i can't tell anyone else about this, so i need you guys. thanks...