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ginaspider April 3 2008, 02:02:25 UTC
Hmm, maybe I'm guilty of doing this to you myself... I'm sorry if I am.

My friend Mai is going blind. When she walks with a walking-cane people claim that she's a fake. You can here them talk about her. There are certain things that people don't believe. Anxiety isn't real. If you're young and pretty you can't possible be blind, shit like that. There are a lot of idiots, well- and fairly intelligent people too, that believe myths like these. I'm sorry for the trouble your having.

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harfang April 16 2008, 15:23:51 UTC
Thanks. I don't recall you ever doing it to me. I've usually been the calmer of us, which is a very new experience for me. :)

Yes, if I can express myself and look "together" and all that, it must not be that bad, people think. They don't know how much of my apparent intelligence has gone to maintaining that appearance, whether I've wanted it to or not. It's not like going blind though. I have no idea how I'd handle that. Very poorly, I'd imagine.

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ginaspider April 19 2008, 06:26:30 UTC
She handles it very well. What brings her down most of the time is when people don't believe she's blind. In that sense, I felt as if you could relate.

I'm curious, what do you think will happen if people actually saw how much of a problem this is for you? What would change?

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harfang May 18 2008, 09:25:03 UTC
Good question. Maybe they'd pity me, and it would be worse.

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ginaspider May 24 2008, 03:18:56 UTC
How do you suggest people handle anxiety in others and have it be beneficial?

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