Mar 04, 2005 01:55
Hey guess what? Guys are scum. Don't put up with their shit, and don't let them let you feel like shit. Be tough, but don't be hard. Ditch a motherfucker in the blink of an eye if he treats you like less than a queen. And leave him in the fucking ditch where he belongs. Don't leave yourself open for mindgames, for he will surely try to play tricks on you. Realize your self worth and the fact that the world will not stop turning without him, it might just feel like it has for a minute. Don't let your world crumble, no man is worth that shit, and you'll look back one day and wonder why it took you so long to realize that he was just another passer by. Learn your lessons from him, don't regret, and don't hate yourself for his stupidity.
THIS ADVICE GOES OUT TO EVERYONE, NOT TO ONE PERSON IN PARTICULAR.
I am so ill with the male species right now, it's not even funny. And none of it is happening to me, but it seems to be happening to every single friend I have, and it makes me sick to my fucking stomach that I can't do anything about it. I can blow steam on this journal, I can give advice till I'm blue in the face, and none of it matters a lick in the end. I just hope you all open your eyes and realize that you are beautiful, amazing women who deserve someone who treats you with respect and dignity, and if you can't find someone like that, then be content to be alone, for you are much better off that way.
That is all I have to say. Take it in one ear and out the other, and I'll be your shoulder to cry on the next time he brings you tears.