May 21, 2003 12:28
I may be married now, but I'm still the same old person. I certainly don't think I'm too good for anyone now, it's just the fact that I've moved to Boise, gotten a new job, and I've met new people that I am not able to keep so closely in touch with old friends.
I just felt like putting a post about this because some people seem to think I no longer want anything to do with them now simply because I got married. Come on, people! Give me a little more credit. I'm not that shallow!
I'm not saying everyone feels this way about me, I don't honestly know who does or not, I just wanted to let people know I'm still the same Tiffany. I'm only 19 years old and I still like to have fun. The fact that I'm married hasn't changed that.
I just hope people remember that I was never really the type of person to invite other people out places, I was usually the one who got asked and went along. Why? I don't know, that's just the way I was and still am. But I hope no one ever stops inviting me.
And also, someone I know was recently angry at me because I hadn't tried contacting them in a while, and they blamed it on the fact that I was married. But guess what? They hadn't contacted me either! So really they have no right to be mad when they are just as guilty. Friendship is a two-way street, and I don't not want to be your friend anymore because I'm married!
Having said all that, most of my old friends are really cool about me being married and even enjoy being around my husband because he's a cool dude. :) Just saying that this journal isn't really directed towards my livejournal buddies, just wanted to let you know I'm still the same person so you don't wonder about me and my new married life. And I hope none of you ever think I don't want to hang out cause I'm married.
I rest my case. :)
P.S. Please don't be mad at me over this post, I know it might sound like I'm attacking people, but it's not directed towards livejournal people and I'm really just trying to let you all know I still want to be all your friends. :) So don't take it the wrong way, k? :)