Mar 15, 2004 17:52
So I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. We all keep complaining about how much drama there is and blah blah blah. But, in my opinion any drama that is created, you create it yourself. I am not trying to be a bitch or piss anyone off....but it seems to me that its not a city or a bar that creates drama, but the person. Because I have been to a lot of places and everywhere I have gone there has always been drama. When I live in Manchester there was drama, not a lot, but some. When I went to school in BG there was DRAMA. There was a lot of it. When I went to CP I found the capital of drama. Yes, I will agree that there is a hell of a lot of drama here in Akron, but wherever you will go, I am almost 100% positive that you will find drama. The only way you will find your life drama free is if you crawl into a hole and become a hermit. You can say, well there is no drama, but there is, you just dont want to admit it. This is not directed towards anyone in particular, just in general.
Also, people need to learn not to take EVERY little thing so personal. I know I get upset sometimes by things that are said, but who doesnt. However, a little attitude here and there should not be considered a HUGE problem and cause you to distance yourself from your friends. I know everyone is having there issues right now, but most of us have had some pretty tough things happen to us and the only people we could turn to and talk to were our friends.
"The Circle" as everyone like to refer to it as, has done a lot of bouncing lately, but I dont think it should be cause for it to break. Yes, we are all doing our own things and moving on with our lives, but that doesnt mean that we have to completely unplug ourselves from everyone. Im so sick of everyone bitching and complaining about everyone. For some reason we are friends. I know you all know that I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason. For some reason we were destined to meet and become friends. Dont forget that. There are people that pass through our lives and there are people that make imprints. You have all made an imprint in my life and in my heart. Each one of you has been there for me in someway or another in the yr and 1/2 that I have known you. I know I am beginning to babble on now, but its something that needs to be said. So whenever you think that no one cares and that things are shitty, remember there is at least one person who cares what you do. Anyways...you can take this how you want, or you can talk about how dumb I am behind my back, I dont care. But I just hope that it makes you think and all the making fun of people behind there backs will stop. I know that I bitch about people, Im not saying I am a saint. But, there is a difference between when someone does something to piss you off, or when you talk about a person and making fun of them. So I hope you all have a good day today. I dont know if you are going out or not, I hope you do cause I am and we all need to have some fun. It doesnt take money to go to the bar, only to drink, and if none of us have money then we can all be sober together :-) Anyways...love yas!