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someone leave me an anonymous or unanonymous comment and tell me how you really feel (about anything). rant, rave, whatever. i'll reply if i feel like it.
(i will keep all personal unanonymous comments screened for your privacy)
(i will keep all personal unanonymous comments screened for your privacy)
first, you should ask yourself does it hurt so much not having him, that's it's worth the hurt of having him for only a few months?
if the answer is yes, i'd start off by saying hi and smiling flirtatiously the next time you walk by him or are around him. you might feel stupid because you know you've planned it, but whatever dude, do it. this way he knows you're around, and he knows you know he's around. yay!
okay, so as awkward as you'll feel, from this point foward you've got to smile at him whenever you make eye contact instead of looking away. this is a huge one, guys are dumb sometimes and don't get it when girls like them, but doing this like makes them subconsciously think, "hmm, she's pretty when she smiles and looks into my eyes" which is something that couples do, ya know.
since you've got a limited amount of time you're going to have to rush into this a bit. try and look out for anything that you have in common that you can bring up in conversation. find a good time when you're both around eachother (locker, something like that), and try and make small talk. you can ween yourself into the conversation by asking the time or something. definitely get his name (and tell him yours) before finishing the conversation, make sure to be smiley and do your thang.
at this point you should feel a bit more comfortable around him, and be able to say hi in the halls more often. you can also had him on myspace (hahah, lame? whatevs. i'd totally do it.) it's a great way to lessen the anxiety you may feel when talking to him in person. i'd message him and be like "oh hey, ____, it's _____ from school. what's good? ♥" something along those lines. he should hopefully be getting the hint by now.
i hope this was helpful! now go get him, girl!
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