Tolerance
As a Christian, it's difficult to simultaneously please and agree with my fellow christian peers, but what is more difficult is maintaining a tolerance level with each other. God says to love thy neighbor but it's complicated. Sometimes it's not fair for Christians especially if you're dealing with people who have ADHD.
How can I be cruel and misunderstanding? Shut the fuck up. I can't deal with these people anymore, especially people who are childish to think about someone else. I don't even understand how I attract different kinds of self-centered attention whores.
Let's say there's this girl named A. When we first met, she told me that she suffered from hereditary depression and anxiety attacks. I foolishly said no prob, so we became acqauntainces. She likes to see herself right and guilt-free for every step she makes. She came from a tight, restrictive family and tells everyone she is out of money, like she wants somebody to pay for her. I was kind enough to pay for her whenever I visited, but little did I know she was actually manipulative, cold and simple girl.
She wore her heart on her sleeves and chased after guys until they loved her back. The moment, they love her back, she drops/tosses them aside.The truth is, she had a boyfriend - "complicated" relationship (on/off). So when he came up to see her, she went to make sure she was innocent - telling her bf, B was a stalker. This bitch even made herself as the victim, disgusting. Now, when B saw through her what her scheme was, he lost half his interest in her and began talking to different people. This made A furious and she bawled, was standing behind me, saying B was using her blah blah blah. Now this girl not only had depression but anxiety attacks and schizophrenia. So she lied to people that B was ignoring her, receiving sympathy from church members. She has no shame.
A formed a pattern that I quickly noticed. She would flirt with guys until they like her. She feigns innocence and tells them she has a "bf" so they should back off. When guys see this, they fool her back. Only this time, she take it personally and cries out how the guys don't take her seriously and nobodycurrs. Honestly, i felt sorry for her and told her encouraging words and try to help her. But she's one of those girls who talks shit but never acknowledge and enjoy eveybody symphasizing with her. I had enough of her.
The only problem is when I tell her this, she will see herself as the victim and will take this personally, cutting/damaging herself how intensely she takes from peeps. On the flip side, maybe she'll stop blocking me from meeting new people. Honestly, this girl is a mosquito - she sucks energy/blood from me to recharge herself and make herself look better. She's so self-centered. I want her to disappear/kill this bitch.
How can I be cruel and misunderstanding? Shut the fuck up. I can't deal with these people anymore, especially people who are childish to think about someone else. I don't even understand how I attract different kinds of self-centered attention whores.
Let's say there's this girl named A. When we first met, she told me that she suffered from hereditary depression and anxiety attacks. I foolishly said no prob, so we became acqauntainces. She likes to see herself right and guilt-free for every step she makes. She came from a tight, restrictive family and tells everyone she is out of money, like she wants somebody to pay for her. I was kind enough to pay for her whenever I visited, but little did I know she was actually manipulative, cold and simple girl.
She wore her heart on her sleeves and chased after guys until they loved her back. The moment, they love her back, she drops/tosses them aside.The truth is, she had a boyfriend - "complicated" relationship (on/off). So when he came up to see her, she went to make sure she was innocent - telling her bf, B was a stalker. This bitch even made herself as the victim, disgusting. Now, when B saw through her what her scheme was, he lost half his interest in her and began talking to different people. This made A furious and she bawled, was standing behind me, saying B was using her blah blah blah. Now this girl not only had depression but anxiety attacks and schizophrenia. So she lied to people that B was ignoring her, receiving sympathy from church members. She has no shame.
A formed a pattern that I quickly noticed. She would flirt with guys until they like her. She feigns innocence and tells them she has a "bf" so they should back off. When guys see this, they fool her back. Only this time, she take it personally and cries out how the guys don't take her seriously and nobodycurrs. Honestly, i felt sorry for her and told her encouraging words and try to help her. But she's one of those girls who talks shit but never acknowledge and enjoy eveybody symphasizing with her. I had enough of her.
The only problem is when I tell her this, she will see herself as the victim and will take this personally, cutting/damaging herself how intensely she takes from peeps. On the flip side, maybe she'll stop blocking me from meeting new people. Honestly, this girl is a mosquito - she sucks energy/blood from me to recharge herself and make herself look better. She's so self-centered. I want her to disappear/kill this bitch.