This is gunna be long...Old Writtings of mine.....
~*~JUST BECAUSE
*Just because I wear tight clothes and enjoy kissing boys and flirting does NOT make me a whore.
*Just because I don't shave my legs sometimes and wear guy clothing, doesn't make me a dyke.
*Just because I wear cat eyeglasses, pink, and use lunchboxes, doesn't make me an indie girl.
*Just because I read Anne Rice, listen to The Cure, and wear all black, doesn't make me goth.
*Just because I'm a ditz and I don't do to well in school does not mean I am stupid.
*Just becuase I wear American Eagle, have a lot of money and live in a nice house doesn't mean I'm a prepp.
*Just because I like rap and use the words "tight" and "wicked" does not make me ghetto fab
*Just because I listen to Rufio, The Queers, dye my hair sometimes, and occasionally wear a spike belt, doesn't make me punk.
*Just because I wear baby doll tee's, buy stuff at WetSeal, and liked Clueless, doesn't make me a mall girl.
*Just because I like Greenday, and none of my friends are as dumb as you are, doesn't make me a poser.
*Just because I voice my opinion and don't take shit, doesn't make me a bitch.
*Just because I hate a few boys, doesn't make me a man hater.
*Just because I misspell stuff, MAKE MISTAKES, and forget things, doesn't make me dumb.
*Just because you're more popular than me, prettier than me, and have more boyfriends, doesn't make you cooler than me.
*Just because im skinnier then you doesnt make me anorexic or bullimic.
*Just because i weight more then you doesnt make me fat.
*Just because you're male, and think you're a tough gangster, doesn't mean I'm scared of you.
*Just because I believe a woman's body is her own,and that homosexuality is okay, that doesn't make me a sinner.
*Just because I'm smiling on the outside, doesn't mean I'm smiling on the inside.
*Just because i'm not you,and you dont know me, DOESN'T mean you can go ahead and judge me. Especially since you dont know me or ever take the time to really know me.
~*~BUDDAH QUOTE
Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it
~*~International Food For Thought
If we could shrink the earth's population to a village of precisely 100 people, with all the existing human ratios remaining the same, it would look something like the following:
There would be:
57 Asians
21 Europeans
14 from the Western Hemisphere, both north and south
8 Africans
52 would be female
48 would be male
70 would be nonwhite
30 would be white
70 would be non-Christian
30 would be Christian
89 would be heterosexual
11 would be homosexual
6 people would possess 59% of the entire world's wealth, and all 6 would be from the United States.
80 would live in substandard housing
70 would be unable to read
50 would suffer from malnutrition
1 would be near death; 1 would be near birth
1 (yes, only 1) would have a college education
1 would own a computer
When one considers our world from such a compressed perspective, the need for acceptance, understanding and education becomes glaringly apparent.
~*~May I request permission to ask why men are such assholes? Sleezy, annoying, horney pathetic little things that are after one friggen thing...I am aware I sound like my father so Ima gonna stop.
Seriously I know that there are alot of sweet guys who actually do care, but unfortunately i know alot more who are sleezy sex-crazed bastards!
Okay I apologise. I know all guys aren't bad, my friends who also happen to be of the male specimen are all SWEETiES, well of course they are SWEETiES or I wouldn't be friends with them *duh*. Anyway my point is...the ratio of SWEETiES to d*ckheads would have to be like 2:8. I guess I will just have to avoid those 8 in every 10 people who piss me off. As you can probably tell I had an encounter with one of those 8 peoplez today *actually there was alot more then one encounter*. I won't bore you with the details but seriously they must have made me really mad to make me bitch about the male gender like i just did! I use to think all guys were SWEETiES...I was clearly mistaken. What ever, I'm over it <--*obvious lie*
~*~Stero Types 1/23/2003
the popular girl. she's RICH. She's got a clique, a picture perfect boyfriend. what could she possibly need? the scale says she is not thin enough Size 3 still seems too big. Her hair never seems to be quite right. She can't help but feel ashamed for being so shallow. But she sighs through another day and slowly staggers towards her own demise .
the punk ass. Ignored and ignores. His political opinions aren't accepted in the world. They're not simply bitter. It's just karma in action. Get beat up by the popular kids. So he goes on disconnecting himself from the world. He's still human. He only wants to be loved. Socially unacceptable. Sick. Scary. Freak. Punk. Names run through his mind. He covers himself up with safety pins and spikes and he admires everything his heros did. After another day in the rat race he comes home, collapses on his unmade bed and stares at the pictures of revolutionaries that he'll never be.
the goth girl. Tough. Untouchable. CREEP. She says doesn't care. but she does. She's failing PE because she's constantly skipping. And she's failing history because she's always challenging her teacher into ethical discussions. But she's not stupid. She has dates, facts, faces, quotes all memorized. When the day's done, she stumbles into her broken home where she'll be put down and neglected again. So she'll lock herself in the bathroom and cut her miseries away.
the Jock. He's got a sports scholarship. And was dubbed the VIP on the team. His girlfriend is the head cheerleader. Girls love him, guys admire him, but he still can't shake the feeling that if he wasn't atheletic, he would no better off than that freshman in the garbage can. He may not be on the honor roll but he's not dumb. he knows all his friends are fake and the only reason he's passing is because he's the quarterback of the team. He's only human. He feels bad when he beats them up. But after all. This is for himself. It's a dog eat dog world. He's so insecure. And at night he will go to bed with guilty thoughts in his mind.
the nerd. She's such an over achiever. 92.3 average. Advanced classes. Barely passing PE. But she comes home trashed and so depressed. Glasses that make Harry Potter's specs look like contacts. Lives her life without a race, religion, eye color, age. Online. Hack, hack, hack. She should beJail and she knows. Math, science, history, english, it all bores her. Everything that she's been taught some years ago. Repeated. Over and over and over again. She can't understand how people can be so silly and daft. Report cards mean nothing to her parents. She's unappreciated. Turned down, she looks for support on the virtual world.
the thug. Ahead of the trend. $200 shoes. He feels so guilty to wear them. Because he's not ignorant- he knows they're made by poor 6 year old exploited children. But if he doesn't act this way, he'll be such an outcast. Bad stereotyping. He doesn't even like listening to Dr. Dre. He doesn't feel that women should be regarded as cheap eye candy. He wants to say so many things, but he can't because of all this pressure. He could get a scholarship if he tried. But because of his "friends" he'll waste his life away in the ghetto. Singing rhymes he doesn't believe, smoking pot he doesn't want. And he'll go home to a screaming disappointed mom and two younger sisters who love him more than his friends could even comprehend. But he'll go back outside and pretend to fit in.
Even though you popular, you might not be rich or whatever~ this isnt exact this is just what society likes to think....
~*~"You better start losing weight. You're getting fat."
Those few words are so powerful especially when they are said to a girl. Say it to a guy, and he thinks nothing of it.
It is an unwritten rule that if a boy loves a girl, he should erase the word 'fat' from his vocabulary. Or else he ends up bearing the consequences of hours of complaining or sleeping on the couch.
Some girls would just walk out the door and never turn back if their man ever said they were fat.
And rightly so. The bottom line is that if a man doesn't accept you for whatever shape or size you are, you walk.
I'm not saying you dump him if he ever utters the 'f' word.
Men aren't the smartest creatures on earth so forgiveness is in order if he just happens to slip up that you're gaining that extra bit of weight.
The real problem is when he keeps harping on the fact that your love handles are so gross that he can't take you to out for dinner and your body should look more like Brittney Spears or whatever.
What's worse, he frequently compares your figure to some super model.
If it hurts you constantly because he says it constantly, dump the loser.
If he apologises profusely for saying it, make him camp out on the sofa for a night and then forgive him in the morning.
Don't be caught speechless or all flustered, flushed with anger mixed with feelings of inadequacy.
Rise above those words with these 10 short, sharp and straight rebuttals that will send your man scurrying away in shame.
10 Things To Say Back
He says you're fat. You say:
*I'm protecting my investment.
*You're the only extra weight that I'm carrying around.
*The only fat that I see being put around here is the one that is going to your brains, so much so that it has rendered you stupid.
*My new role model is Sophie Dahl. You don't know who she is? You see I'd rather be fat than be stupid and ignorant like you.
*Oh I'm sorry. I didn't know that you were advertising for a skinny girlfriend when I applied for the position.
*(Make up an exotic guys name) e.g Salvatore from the office likes me this way! He thinks I'm drop-dead sexy.
*Comment on his looks. E.g. Wow, that's a really huge zit on your face. I'd rather be obese than have acne like that! Disgusting!
*The doctor's advice to me was to put on weight. His advice to you was to have your head examined. Here's the name card of a good psychiatrist he recommended.
*I deliberately put on the extra weight so that I could have the strength to knock you around and punch you till you're black and blue.
*I'm pregnant.
So arm yourself with these rebuttals; it's a fat chance that he'll ever dare say those words again.
*Just because I wear tight clothes and enjoy kissing boys and flirting does NOT make me a whore.
*Just because I don't shave my legs sometimes and wear guy clothing, doesn't make me a dyke.
*Just because I wear cat eyeglasses, pink, and use lunchboxes, doesn't make me an indie girl.
*Just because I read Anne Rice, listen to The Cure, and wear all black, doesn't make me goth.
*Just because I'm a ditz and I don't do to well in school does not mean I am stupid.
*Just becuase I wear American Eagle, have a lot of money and live in a nice house doesn't mean I'm a prepp.
*Just because I like rap and use the words "tight" and "wicked" does not make me ghetto fab
*Just because I listen to Rufio, The Queers, dye my hair sometimes, and occasionally wear a spike belt, doesn't make me punk.
*Just because I wear baby doll tee's, buy stuff at WetSeal, and liked Clueless, doesn't make me a mall girl.
*Just because I like Greenday, and none of my friends are as dumb as you are, doesn't make me a poser.
*Just because I voice my opinion and don't take shit, doesn't make me a bitch.
*Just because I hate a few boys, doesn't make me a man hater.
*Just because I misspell stuff, MAKE MISTAKES, and forget things, doesn't make me dumb.
*Just because you're more popular than me, prettier than me, and have more boyfriends, doesn't make you cooler than me.
*Just because im skinnier then you doesnt make me anorexic or bullimic.
*Just because i weight more then you doesnt make me fat.
*Just because you're male, and think you're a tough gangster, doesn't mean I'm scared of you.
*Just because I believe a woman's body is her own,and that homosexuality is okay, that doesn't make me a sinner.
*Just because I'm smiling on the outside, doesn't mean I'm smiling on the inside.
*Just because i'm not you,and you dont know me, DOESN'T mean you can go ahead and judge me. Especially since you dont know me or ever take the time to really know me.
~*~BUDDAH QUOTE
Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders.
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it
~*~International Food For Thought
If we could shrink the earth's population to a village of precisely 100 people, with all the existing human ratios remaining the same, it would look something like the following:
There would be:
57 Asians
21 Europeans
14 from the Western Hemisphere, both north and south
8 Africans
52 would be female
48 would be male
70 would be nonwhite
30 would be white
70 would be non-Christian
30 would be Christian
89 would be heterosexual
11 would be homosexual
6 people would possess 59% of the entire world's wealth, and all 6 would be from the United States.
80 would live in substandard housing
70 would be unable to read
50 would suffer from malnutrition
1 would be near death; 1 would be near birth
1 (yes, only 1) would have a college education
1 would own a computer
When one considers our world from such a compressed perspective, the need for acceptance, understanding and education becomes glaringly apparent.
~*~May I request permission to ask why men are such assholes? Sleezy, annoying, horney pathetic little things that are after one friggen thing...I am aware I sound like my father so Ima gonna stop.
Seriously I know that there are alot of sweet guys who actually do care, but unfortunately i know alot more who are sleezy sex-crazed bastards!
Okay I apologise. I know all guys aren't bad, my friends who also happen to be of the male specimen are all SWEETiES, well of course they are SWEETiES or I wouldn't be friends with them *duh*. Anyway my point is...the ratio of SWEETiES to d*ckheads would have to be like 2:8. I guess I will just have to avoid those 8 in every 10 people who piss me off. As you can probably tell I had an encounter with one of those 8 peoplez today *actually there was alot more then one encounter*. I won't bore you with the details but seriously they must have made me really mad to make me bitch about the male gender like i just did! I use to think all guys were SWEETiES...I was clearly mistaken. What ever, I'm over it <--*obvious lie*
~*~Stero Types 1/23/2003
the popular girl. she's RICH. She's got a clique, a picture perfect boyfriend. what could she possibly need? the scale says she is not thin enough Size 3 still seems too big. Her hair never seems to be quite right. She can't help but feel ashamed for being so shallow. But she sighs through another day and slowly staggers towards her own demise .
the punk ass. Ignored and ignores. His political opinions aren't accepted in the world. They're not simply bitter. It's just karma in action. Get beat up by the popular kids. So he goes on disconnecting himself from the world. He's still human. He only wants to be loved. Socially unacceptable. Sick. Scary. Freak. Punk. Names run through his mind. He covers himself up with safety pins and spikes and he admires everything his heros did. After another day in the rat race he comes home, collapses on his unmade bed and stares at the pictures of revolutionaries that he'll never be.
the goth girl. Tough. Untouchable. CREEP. She says doesn't care. but she does. She's failing PE because she's constantly skipping. And she's failing history because she's always challenging her teacher into ethical discussions. But she's not stupid. She has dates, facts, faces, quotes all memorized. When the day's done, she stumbles into her broken home where she'll be put down and neglected again. So she'll lock herself in the bathroom and cut her miseries away.
the Jock. He's got a sports scholarship. And was dubbed the VIP on the team. His girlfriend is the head cheerleader. Girls love him, guys admire him, but he still can't shake the feeling that if he wasn't atheletic, he would no better off than that freshman in the garbage can. He may not be on the honor roll but he's not dumb. he knows all his friends are fake and the only reason he's passing is because he's the quarterback of the team. He's only human. He feels bad when he beats them up. But after all. This is for himself. It's a dog eat dog world. He's so insecure. And at night he will go to bed with guilty thoughts in his mind.
the nerd. She's such an over achiever. 92.3 average. Advanced classes. Barely passing PE. But she comes home trashed and so depressed. Glasses that make Harry Potter's specs look like contacts. Lives her life without a race, religion, eye color, age. Online. Hack, hack, hack. She should beJail and she knows. Math, science, history, english, it all bores her. Everything that she's been taught some years ago. Repeated. Over and over and over again. She can't understand how people can be so silly and daft. Report cards mean nothing to her parents. She's unappreciated. Turned down, she looks for support on the virtual world.
the thug. Ahead of the trend. $200 shoes. He feels so guilty to wear them. Because he's not ignorant- he knows they're made by poor 6 year old exploited children. But if he doesn't act this way, he'll be such an outcast. Bad stereotyping. He doesn't even like listening to Dr. Dre. He doesn't feel that women should be regarded as cheap eye candy. He wants to say so many things, but he can't because of all this pressure. He could get a scholarship if he tried. But because of his "friends" he'll waste his life away in the ghetto. Singing rhymes he doesn't believe, smoking pot he doesn't want. And he'll go home to a screaming disappointed mom and two younger sisters who love him more than his friends could even comprehend. But he'll go back outside and pretend to fit in.
Even though you popular, you might not be rich or whatever~ this isnt exact this is just what society likes to think....
~*~"You better start losing weight. You're getting fat."
Those few words are so powerful especially when they are said to a girl. Say it to a guy, and he thinks nothing of it.
It is an unwritten rule that if a boy loves a girl, he should erase the word 'fat' from his vocabulary. Or else he ends up bearing the consequences of hours of complaining or sleeping on the couch.
Some girls would just walk out the door and never turn back if their man ever said they were fat.
And rightly so. The bottom line is that if a man doesn't accept you for whatever shape or size you are, you walk.
I'm not saying you dump him if he ever utters the 'f' word.
Men aren't the smartest creatures on earth so forgiveness is in order if he just happens to slip up that you're gaining that extra bit of weight.
The real problem is when he keeps harping on the fact that your love handles are so gross that he can't take you to out for dinner and your body should look more like Brittney Spears or whatever.
What's worse, he frequently compares your figure to some super model.
If it hurts you constantly because he says it constantly, dump the loser.
If he apologises profusely for saying it, make him camp out on the sofa for a night and then forgive him in the morning.
Don't be caught speechless or all flustered, flushed with anger mixed with feelings of inadequacy.
Rise above those words with these 10 short, sharp and straight rebuttals that will send your man scurrying away in shame.
10 Things To Say Back
He says you're fat. You say:
*I'm protecting my investment.
*You're the only extra weight that I'm carrying around.
*The only fat that I see being put around here is the one that is going to your brains, so much so that it has rendered you stupid.
*My new role model is Sophie Dahl. You don't know who she is? You see I'd rather be fat than be stupid and ignorant like you.
*Oh I'm sorry. I didn't know that you were advertising for a skinny girlfriend when I applied for the position.
*(Make up an exotic guys name) e.g Salvatore from the office likes me this way! He thinks I'm drop-dead sexy.
*Comment on his looks. E.g. Wow, that's a really huge zit on your face. I'd rather be obese than have acne like that! Disgusting!
*The doctor's advice to me was to put on weight. His advice to you was to have your head examined. Here's the name card of a good psychiatrist he recommended.
*I deliberately put on the extra weight so that I could have the strength to knock you around and punch you till you're black and blue.
*I'm pregnant.
So arm yourself with these rebuttals; it's a fat chance that he'll ever dare say those words again.