I thought I'd give a quick update on how things are going. Right now I'm at school and already I can tell this is going to be a great/interesting new year
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Because I don't think I can really picture him like that. As it is he always sat 2 rows in front of me and to the left until I decided to sit behind him earlier in the quarter in my intro to theater class. He was always so quiet until I decided to start talking to him. For some reason when someone is painfully quiet in a class that I have, I find myself talking to them and try to get them to open up. I'll start by asking them how they are or whatever. I mean as it was there was so much banter going back and forth in that class between me, David, and the teacher Ron, that other people were joining in on it giving the teacher crap as well, or joining in on the stuff David and I were talking about
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Not to mention he's younger then me, he lives with his parents and doesn't have a license or car (which doesn't matter a whole lot. It's just nice to be driven sometimes instead of the one always driving.)
If I remember right he's only been in a few relationships and has never been in love. When I said he's cute I meant it in the naive/innocent way.
I don't mind going out with him for fun, but the last thing I really want right now is another awkward relationship with someone who has issues communicating.
Hmmmm. I don't think everyone who is quiet necessarily has problems communicating. I wouldn't know anything about going out with younger men, because I never have, but I don't really think I'd mind.
Is it so bad to be young and sweet? Having gone out with knowing and arrogant, I think it can only be a relief in some ways.
WTF? Digging on Ben? I've been in more relationships with guys who have issues communicating then just Ben. If anything Ben made more of an effort then another past bf who got angry and yelled at me because he got frustrated at the fact that he couldn't explain stuff well enough even for him. Not everything is about Ben sweetie.
I know for a fact Brandon has issues communicating because when I had class with him we talked a lot about my past and his past cause I wanted to get to know him better. Hell I think I even flat out asked him if he has issues communicating and he said yes.
Do me a favor? Know what you're talking about and who is being spoken of before you make accusations.
"I know for a fact Brandon has issues communicating because when I had class with him we talked a lot about my past and his past cause I wanted to get to know him better. Hell I think I even flat out asked him if he has issues communicating and he said yes."
Okay, now I see what you mean about him not being a good communicator. However, if you guys talked a lot is it that he can't communicate his needs/wants/emotions, or that he can't communicate adequately and most of your conversations have been painful extractions of information?
To be honest it looked like a dig from here too. But now that it's explained I think I understand. Course it could have been a dig on He who must not be named!
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If I remember right he's only been in a few relationships and has never been in love. When I said he's cute I meant it in the naive/innocent way.
I don't mind going out with him for fun, but the last thing I really want right now is another awkward relationship with someone who has issues communicating.
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Is it so bad to be young and sweet? Having gone out with knowing and arrogant, I think it can only be a relief in some ways.
Please stop digging on Ben, too.
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I know for a fact Brandon has issues communicating because when I had class with him we talked a lot about my past and his past cause I wanted to get to know him better. Hell I think I even flat out asked him if he has issues communicating and he said yes.
Do me a favor? Know what you're talking about and who is being spoken of before you make accusations.
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"I know for a fact Brandon has issues communicating because when I had class with him we talked a lot about my past and his past cause I wanted to get to know him better. Hell I think I even flat out asked him if he has issues communicating and he said yes."
Okay, now I see what you mean about him not being a good communicator. However, if you guys talked a lot is it that he can't communicate his needs/wants/emotions, or that he can't communicate adequately and most of your conversations have been painful extractions of information?
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