Apr 22, 2015 14:54
Ok, so advice please.
It is not the charge of my friends to keep me in line. I comically told them to restrain me from trying to get into another relationship because...well I don't need that right now. I'm perfectly happy being single. How can I explain it...I'm content.
Anyway, well I then decided after some hints to ask a friend of mine out for a date. My friend is a woman. I've never dated a woman before, but I've been curious about it for a while. I've never identified as bisexual. I probably will never.
I find women visually stunning, but I'm not so attracted that I'd ask them out for dates. No, the only type I'd consider asking out for a date is one who I've grown very close to and have spent a lot of time with. Even then...my choice is very specific. I don't really know how to explain it.
My thoughts are - even though I was curious about it, I would've have never asked for a date if it wasn't that specific person. If she said no, I wouldn't go out and look for another girl.
I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't think she does either. She is also seeing another man (who is ok with all of this and so am I).
Is this right to do? Are we just being curious?
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