My 15yo nephew is gay

Jan 14, 2015 12:51

Does anyone read these? I have never wrote or posted anything on here or any other website but today is a new day and Im at a loss as to what to do for my nephew. He is 15. He just told me he was gay. Ok, well no surprise to me. He acts just like a girl and has since he learned to walk and talk. He was born this way. Our family thought he would grow out of it but I knew it was something else. Since kindergarten he has suffered emotional torment from others. He has been teased, called names, all of the above. He has no friends, he hates people, and has been hurting for so long. He doesn't hate me though. I have always been there for him through many tears and tried my hardest to help him deal with other kids and what they have to say. ITS THE HARDEST THING IVE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE!! I love him so much and my heart is broke, not because he's gay but what he endures everyday of his life since he was a toddler. He finally came to me and said Im gay, well he said bi-sexual but I don't believe that. He said he took a test online? huh? i had to chuckle to myself. I told him I will love you the same as I did since the day you were born. I told him Im so happy he came to me and could tell me. The problem is our family is just not as understanding as I am. However, they will not be shocked either, they know theres a good possibility but nobody talks about it. Its just not talked about at all. All I do know is this young man was born this way. He deserves to be happy! Im not sure how to tell them he admitted it, its almost as if Im a nervous wreck to say what we all already knew. If I have posted this in the wrong place forgive me will you.

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