What to do?!?
So Jesse fwded me an email between him and the head guy in Germany. Looks like if he gets sent to Germany, we can't go with. If we were to go with that would be all on us including visas and Daniel would definately be going to German schools as we aren't allowed to live on post. So it's looks like my options are let him to go to Germany for 3yrs alone, let him go to Iraq for another year in a year, or him quit his job and we move to WV (with his mom at first until we get settled) and both get jobs and put Daniel in daycare. None of them seem too reasonable or realistic to me. I can't be without him for another 3 yrs....he refuses to go back to Iraq....and after my week long stay with my mother in law, I don't really think I could handle living with her. Nothing against her or anything, but I like my own space. I haven't had my own space for long... a little over 2 yrs or so... God, what do we do?!?