What to do?

Dec 14, 2011 16:04

I feel torn at the moment.  I called my mom today saying I'll be a little late coming home and she starts crying because my older sister called her today threatening her.  You have to understand that some really deep things have happened over the past week, and I just don't know what to do to help.  I know I don't need to but I feel like I need to stand up and defend my parents.  She was yelling at her saying that she was going to call CPS and tell them how our parents abused us growing up, that they are cruel, and that she used to cut herself and they didn't do anything to help her.  WTF?  Seriously, we have let you into our house and this is the way that you are showing your thanks; being a down right spiteful bitch.  To top things off she called her at work when she was working with a customer screaming over the phone.  My mother felt absolutely embarrassed.  I'm sorry, but I don't see any need to do that.  I know exactly why she did this.  In simple terms CPS has gotten involved in one child in the family because of his explosive behavior.  She was told today that even though he is home that the investigation isn't over yet.  Of course she is just looking for an escape, and doesn't want to be truthful.  She was furious with us last week when they showed up at night and interview us adults.  She was mad because we didn't lie to protect him, but how is that getting the help that they need?  He has a problem that needs to be addressed, and you lying to them is not helping him in anyway.  The way I see it is that enough is enough.  If she is going to be rude and disrespectful then she can pack up and leave.  There is no place in this house for an ugly soul like that.  The truth being is that not once have I been abused growing up by my parents.  I was only ever grounded once, and I only recall getting spanked once.  Anytime my little sister got in trouble she got things taken away from her or she was grounded.  Once again no abuse.  If there was any abuse it was coming from my older sister.  You've read time and again when my sister first moved in about how she was horrible to me when I was a child; that she would verbally abuse me by calling me fat, ugly, that I couldn't dance, and that I wasn't smart.  If I was spiteful like her I would call CPS and tell them that she has a history of being abusive; SOB.  Last but not least if you are one of those family members that coddle her you need to wake the fuck up because she isn't anything but a heartless person that only cares about herself.  She needs a wake up call and she needs one NOW!
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