OR someone might have called you gay. Because, you know, when someone does that YOUR BALLS FALL OFF!
Although I must take this opportunity to piggyback off of what ariellabella said (and sorry for posting this outside that thread, but I didn't want to overspam this entry with comments, heh). Gay men oftentimes have trouble keeping friendships with other gay men. Usually one will initiate contact with another in a specifically gay environment only when he's sexually/physically interested in the other, and that's usually how specifically gay/gay friendships are born. Any physical interest that shows up in one direction obviously makes things difficult for both people involved. Add in some other complications (some men want to have long-lasting monogamous relationships resembling marriages while others want to share a bed with a new man every night, and anything in between those two), and you have a disaster brewing.
At least the fags will recognize this and be civil about it: sad as it may be that friendships have to end when lust steps in, I suppose it's for the benefit of those involved that they separate themselves when these tensions become an issue, and it's common that gay men do that.
Also, I'll just point out here that unless there was some imbalanced sexual desire at the end of a dating situation, you probably wouldn't see former happy couples end up hating each other after breaking up.
Disclaimer: The above was written after lab and while talking to other people on Instant Messenger and was then not edited, so it may make less sense than you'd hope.
Although I must take this opportunity to piggyback off of what ariellabella said (and sorry for posting this outside that thread, but I didn't want to overspam this entry with comments, heh). Gay men oftentimes have trouble keeping friendships with other gay men. Usually one will initiate contact with another in a specifically gay environment only when he's sexually/physically interested in the other, and that's usually how specifically gay/gay friendships are born. Any physical interest that shows up in one direction obviously makes things difficult for both people involved. Add in some other complications (some men want to have long-lasting monogamous relationships resembling marriages while others want to share a bed with a new man every night, and anything in between those two), and you have a disaster brewing.
At least the fags will recognize this and be civil about it: sad as it may be that friendships have to end when lust steps in, I suppose it's for the benefit of those involved that they separate themselves when these tensions become an issue, and it's common that gay men do that.
Also, I'll just point out here that unless there was some imbalanced sexual desire at the end of a dating situation, you probably wouldn't see former happy couples end up hating each other after breaking up.
Disclaimer: The above was written after lab and while talking to other people on Instant Messenger and was then not edited, so it may make less sense than you'd hope.
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