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Apparently feeling needed is a fairly vital part of male mental health in a relationship. Shit. I have to talk about this, and I REALLY do not want to make any waves when the boat seems roughly on course. I mean I've felt detached and that's not good but... things are so much better that it's really fucking hard to start this conversation that might make things worse. Has to happen but fuck I was hoping it was just me or some stupid macho thing that was stuck in my head I could learn to live with.