a live journal opinion poll

[grlwitasn]

ive been thinking about this a lot lately and i wanted to ask everyone's opinion on it. What is love? how do you know if you're in love? how long does it take to fall in love? whats the difference between love and lust? how do you know if the other person loves you back? reply w/ an answer

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love according to me :)

[dancnspunk]

lets start with the easy stuff... lust is wanting to do dirty things to someone and see them naked and thats the end of it (thats pretty straight forward). Love..hm...well the love your talking about usually means you want to see them naked...but thats in addition to all the other stuff. As far as the other stuff is concerned..you just like being around them, you can tell them anything whether it's how much you love them or that they're pissing you off, you can hate them one second and totally be over it the next, and even if you "lust" after someone else its not even worth a second thought because your love for this person is so much better..maybe im getting into the whole "true love" thing...i dont know. I dont think theres a specific amount of time it takes to fall in love, it depends on the people... i think its never really done so you cant stick a time to it. Like you start falling love with someone and its a constant thing that just gets bigger and bigger...or smaller and smaller..if that makes any sense. And you can tell they love you back by how they look at you...at least thats my theory... i'd like to think they'd tell you too.

hm... well i hope that was a good enough answer to your little poll. I dont know how much sense that makes but thats my take on it i guess.