I'm with Jarad, she thinks that she is helping you by making sure that you thought of something, or you remember something else. And, she is just worried, even if the fear is completely unfounded.
My thoughts... are that I know it is very easy to loose yourself in another person. Be careful how much you make decisions based on what someone else wants. You are the only person you have to live your whole life with: make sure you are okay first. This doesn't mean not caring about another person, but it does mean making your own decisions.
I am sure Ella is nice and good to you... at least I have no reason to think otherwise. Just make sure she is considering your wants as much as you are considering hers.
P.S. while I advocate the living-at-home-save-money approach believing that most young people are not mature enough to live on their own (with noteable exceptions), I also have noticed that now that I AM mature enough to live away from home, I am more grateful for the brief times I spend living with my mom. I love her, but I cannot live with her for much more than a week.
John says: "let him choose his own way. At least you're not choosing to sling dope."
My thoughts... are that I know it is very easy to loose yourself in another person. Be careful how much you make decisions based on what someone else wants. You are the only person you have to live your whole life with: make sure you are okay first. This doesn't mean not caring about another person, but it does mean making your own decisions.
I am sure Ella is nice and good to you... at least I have no reason to think otherwise. Just make sure she is considering your wants as much as you are considering hers.
P.S. while I advocate the living-at-home-save-money approach believing that most young people are not mature enough to live on their own (with noteable exceptions), I also have noticed that now that I AM mature enough to live away from home, I am more grateful for the brief times I spend living with my mom. I love her, but I cannot live with her for much more than a week.
John says: "let him choose his own way. At least you're not choosing to sling dope."
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