my wise friend Kara once said...
My friend Kara (kara_brynn85) posted this in her journal, and I just loved it so much that I wanted to share it with my friends as well :) I really loved all of the points that she made, and all of her mottos, but a couple of them stood out to me, and not saying that I didn’t like the other as much or that I don’t agree with them! Because I do, but the ones that I high lighted really stood out to me. So enjoy :) Because Kara is very wise, lol:
1. life goes on...EVENTUALLY
2. don't hesitate to make friends with anyone, you never know...one day they may be one of your best friends
3. take care of the ones that love you
4. pamper yourself daily, it's good for the heart and soul
5. buy yourself one thing once a month, that way you don't go on a shopping spree
6. being busy makes happier more productive people
7. life really isn't so difficult
8. D R A M A really is unnecessary
9. if you're friends don't appreciate you, cut them loose
10. there's no reason to look to the past
11. learn to take care of yourself, don't rely on others to do the job for you
12. remain close with your family
13. DAYDREAM
14. everyone deserves the benefit of doubt
15. boys don't really suck, most of the time it's the circumstance
16. never give up, NEVER
17. get sleep, you'll feel so much better
18. cherish your memories but make new ones
19. make music apart of your daily life, that way you have a soundtrack of your life
20. take up a new hobby
21. indulge in your obsessions or addictions
22. take a job outside your desired career
23. be friendly
24. do an art project, you'll feel wonderful when it's done
25. if you fall in love, fall head over feet
26. crying is never a bad thing
27. you're friends really are there for you
28. if you borrow something, return it back to it's owner
29. don't be selfish
30. don't stay in a dysfunctional relationship
31. individual happiness is number 1 priority
32. when others tell you something nice about yourself, the only response should be "thank you"
33. don't hold your true feelings back
34. looks aren't everything
35. if you can't dress...don't try to be trendy
36. you don't have to spend thousands of dollars to look nice
37. learn how to do your own makeup and hair
38. water, it's wonderful
39. make time for your friends and family
40. overachieve, that way you will reach your potential
41. age doesn't matter
42. a sense of humor is oh so charming
43. don't worry about the small stuff, it's not worth it
44. listen to your friends, they know you better than you know yourself
45. don't think about the future too much
46. patience really is a virtue
47. it's really rude to be late
48. everyone thinks their life is more important than everyone else
49. don't be a dick to others, you never know when you never know who they know
50. networking, it's the greatest invention
51. keep smiling, no matter how hard it gets
52. it's better to have a few close friends than a hundred ok friends
53. get over yourself, you're not so great
54. never hesitate
55. accessories can make or break your outfit
56. shoes, a girls best friend
57. people change as do friendships
58. take pictures
59. accept your body for what it is, not what it was when you were 14
60. the glass should always be half full
61. check up or in with your friends every once in awhile
62. TIP
63. always say thank you, to people that are doing you a service
64. read, ANYTHING
65. be spontaneous
66. plan vacations, get togethers, dinners...
67. the perfect significant other, doesn't really exist
68. everyone will eventually disappoint you
69. don't ever look down on anyone
70. NEVER REGRET
71. speak your mind, fight for your rights and stand up for what you believe in
72. don't be a doormat
73. love, it eventually comes everyone’s way
74. memorize certain phone numbers
75. have fun but be careful
76. everyone's life starts at different times
77. don't push your values, morals and beliefs on others
78. do what makes you happy
79. surround yourself with people that make you be the best version of yourself
80. when out with your friends, once in awhile, pick up the check
81. don't go into NYC on the weekends in the summer
82. everyone has their own opinions and they all think theirs is the best
83. remember peoples birthdays
84. don't lie about the important things
85. any customer service job is the WORST, some people are just horrible
86. keep a journal, memory box or something along those lines
87. don't clutter your life with things and people
88. don't sleep with the TV on
89. if you see a doctor and he gives you advice, TAKE IT
90. be careful who you kiss, you never know...
91. don't compare yourself with others
92. don't compare people to other people
93. believe in something...just as long as you believe
94. holidays aren't so wonderful for everyone, BE KIND
95. don't criticize peoples music or movie taste, it's not nice
96. collect something
97. be your own person
98. if someone invites you to something, go unless you have an emergency or you already had plans
99. be respectful and considerate to others
100. keep your inside jokes with your friends