Dec 30, 2009 16:32
It is interesting how one grows accustomed to certain boundaries, safe and comfortable. Suddenly freed from them, I find that I am not quite sure where I want me boundaries to be. I had various set boundaries within my relationship agreements and now that I am single it somehow seems a novel question to ask myself just what I want my boundaries to be. I was pretty settled and comfortable in the ones that I had. I liked them. I have often been quite willy-nilly about such things in the past. It feels really good to be pondering them, setting clear intentions for what I want, and sticking to them. I only have the answers for right now, but that is the beauty of things, that you get to keep feeling out where you are at and deciding.
internal psychology