Jun 25, 2007 02:13
“If there are sound reasons or bases for the points you demand, then there is no need to use violence. On the other hand, when there is no sound reason that concessions should be made to you but mainly your own desire, then reason cannot work and you have to rely on force. Thus, using force is not a sign of strength but rather a sign of weakness. Even in daily human contact, if we talk seriously, using reasons, there is no need to feel anger. We can argue the points. When we fail to prove with reason, then anger comes. When reason ends, then anger begins. Therefore, anger is a sign of weakness.”
His Holiness the Dalai Lama, from ‘The Dalai Lama, A Policy of Kindness: An Anthology of Writings by and About the Dalai Lama’, Snow Lion Publications.