Control yourself, take only what you need from it
Four years ago today, my grandfather "Pop" passed away. I miss he and my grandmother so very much...they were constant figures in my life and were such an integral part of my upbringing. I used to go to their house for lunch every now and then just to spend some time alone with them and talk about all the various things going on in my life and in theirs. I cherish those memories. My grandparents were so active with their family & friends, with their home, with their church. The love they shared together for over 60 years still amazes me. I remember those moments where they shared their wisdom and advice, not just today, but everyday.