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grape_lady

Ups and Downs - Your comments please

Aug 02, 2004 16:59

Met a man. He was pre-screened by a close friend. He seemed interesting and we hit it off on several levels. It felt really good to have someone be attentive to me. He called a lot, flirted, was a pretty good kisser, and was good with his hands (at least as much as I would let him use them). His son was visiting from California. Father and ( Read more... )

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wang1961 August 3 2004, 05:18:07 UTC

He sounds QUITE inconsiderate. He's no prize.

grape_lady August 3 2004, 07:52:13 UTC

Yes. He has missed his opportunity to appologize. More effort should have been given to please the "new" lady friend when the plans changed. Over all it was a good thing to see him under stress and pressure very early on before I had a chance to invest lots of time and emotion. Can we say NEXT.

boopadoop August 3 2004, 07:16:22 UTC

Well, it sounds like it was a confusing and difficult weekend. He may not have called you yet because he was embarrassed that everything had gone so wrong. Or he could just be a jerk. Wow, that isn't much help is it? I would like to think it was just the frustration of the whole situation. Be true to yourself my friend. It is a wonderful to be held and touched, but your self respect is worth so much more. I don't think it is wrong to send well wishes to his son, but if you don't get a reply I would not pursue it further. If he was upset because you were tired and you weren't quite in the mood all I can say is - grow up man! Hope it works out for the best.
Keep me posted and if you need an ear or a shoulder, give me a holler.

grape_lady August 3 2004, 07:59:13 UTC

I was going to give him the benifit of the doubt on his behavior, but he had to act fast to contact me and discuss it. He did not.

I am still thinking about the note to the son. I have a week or so on that one. It was too new to have any realy emotion tied up in this one. I'll just chalk it up to one of the frogs on the way to finding a prince. The great thing was that I got a taste of the feeling of being desired. It was really great. I think I may go ahead and sign up for one of the internet personal services. I am much braver than I was. My friend Jessica only went through 4 frogs before she found a real prince.

Have a great day and thanks for your comments.

wang1961 August 3 2004, 08:49:14 UTC

4:1 frog:prince ratio ain't bad if the frogs are paying

grape_lady August 3 2004, 13:19:31 UTC

Hopefully I can do as well. Two frogs down and counting.