If you're talking about Steve......don't think that way....please.......you're so wonderful to me, nothing close to scummy.... if I could make a list of the wonderful feelings you give me, I'd run out of adjectives ^^; that was corny sorry, i guess i'm not as good as i used to be at that or maybe ive just lost confidence, but nonetheless:
you are yourself for a reason. just because your parents see you in a certain light, does NOT mean that its the light you should see yourself in, for that is the only aspect in which you can control. He's not perfect and you know that, he has his own conflicts he must confront and does so, and there are things that most likely go on without you or your parents know about (im just talking about general problems)
sorry this is long and you and your claimed ADDness might find this frustrating, I'm sorry if it appears to do so. Not my intention and you know so, thus i'm not gonna worry about it. I love you Jamie, and as much as I wish that would fix things or that I could be your own universal problem solver, I know I cant, but I will always do my best in hopes that I will be. Aside from that, don't let their actions affect you, their either something to aid you or an obsticle you must overcome, they'll have to accept you one way or another. That's how parents are, and your coming to the age in which you will feel like you're fighting in your family, but you will find in the end you'll have your own place and hopefully it wont be a negative one. Chin up, smile for me, thing of our ultimate plan, take a deep breath and fight through it, even if it means taking what they say.
Try not to get down over them, stay happy for what you have.....they'll realize that Steve is Steve and you are you and not just "the other not as good as steve". they'll realize.....it takes time, its tough and i wish there was more I can do......and I'm willing to do everything
you are yourself for a reason. just because your parents see you in a certain light, does NOT mean that its the light you should see yourself in, for that is the only aspect in which you can control. He's not perfect and you know that, he has his own conflicts he must confront and does so, and there are things that most likely go on without you or your parents know about (im just talking about general problems)
sorry this is long and you and your claimed ADDness might find this frustrating, I'm sorry if it appears to do so. Not my intention and you know so, thus i'm not gonna worry about it. I love you Jamie, and as much as I wish that would fix things or that I could be your own universal problem solver, I know I cant, but I will always do my best in hopes that I will be. Aside from that, don't let their actions affect you, their either something to aid you or an obsticle you must overcome, they'll have to accept you one way or another. That's how parents are, and your coming to the age in which you will feel like you're fighting in your family, but you will find in the end you'll have your own place and hopefully it wont be a negative one. Chin up, smile for me, thing of our ultimate plan, take a deep breath and fight through it, even if it means taking what they say.
Try not to get down over them, stay happy for what you have.....they'll realize that Steve is Steve and you are you and not just "the other not as good as steve". they'll realize.....it takes time, its tough and i wish there was more I can do......and I'm willing to do everything
I love you Jamie
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