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Over a month ago I posted this on my facebook and tagged my mother in it.I was referring to the Parnis family, mainly Christopher and Nannu. Mother's brother commented on it "And with that Goodnight" Mum never replied, and I thought she's seen it and I didn't understand it so ignored it.
Turns out Anthony decided it was aimed at mum's family, the Eatons, and blocked and deleted both mum and dad.
Mum realised she wasn't seeing anything from him so I checked her friends list on Sunday. He wasn't there. And on her account, we couldn't see his account at all, not the comment I knew was there, nor him on her sister's and niece's facebooks...On my account however, we could and I deduced he'd blocked her.
Since she couldn't email him, I sent him a message instead. And I'm going got copy and paste the whole convo.
Rebecca Parnis
Hi, I don't know if you know me but I'm Donna's daughter, Rebecca. Mum was talking about how she hasn't seen any posts from you on her wall lately and I decided to check her friends list and noticed you were no longer on there, but have the Wards, Jeanette and Tanya. Mum says she didn't delete you so I did some snooping and noticed that she can't even see you on their lists, which means you've blocked her. And I would just like to know why. What has she supposedly done for you lot to be ignoring her?
He saw it Sunday but didn't bother replying until this morning.
Anthony Eaton
a few weeks ago you and your mum posted something about the "family", and TBH that was enough for me as it was directed towards people I love and people I consider my FAMILY, and please dont deny this and the direction it was aimed, we may all not all ne whiter than white but we are honest, and I commented on you and your mums post about the "family" and as far as I am concerned I no longer want to speak to your mum or hear her comments, and as I posted on this comment " with that I say goodbye" please do not contact me again
Anthony Eaton
and this is why I removed her and blocked her
And of course, you don't point fingers at me, say something unjust and expect me to leave it. And so I replied.
Rebecca Parnis
The thing I posted? And let me emphasize the I part.
I posted it directed at the Parnis Family because they are lying two-faced bastards who have a habit of telling lies about us, especially my so-called grandfather and because of the lies they've told, I lost my older brother. They told the external family all this shit about us, tried turning my older sister against my mother (which thankfully didn't work) and then make themselves out to be the victims. It was aimed mainly at 'grandfather' who likes to bemoan the fact that we don't see him, but couldn't be bothered adding me on facebook even though he added his new partner's children, even though I spent 3 years going down weekly while at school nearby. And to my brother because he's just as bad as the rest of them, making promises he can't be bothered to keep but then turning round and saying we kicked him out and never loved him. THAT'S who the post was directed to! Yes, you commented "and with that goodnight" Mum never realised you commented which I thought she had but considering you blocked her it means she can't see anything your comment, and I couldn't understand it and ignored it.
Perhaps next time before jumping to conclusions you might be interested to find out the back story. I don't know how much you know about us, but mum has been through the shit with the in-laws because she never let them use her as a mat and take over her responsibilities on us. Not to mention we are the second marriage's kids and they never wanted us, and never wanted her because they wanted my precious older siblings. It was directed at the Parnis Family and I will happily post a comment on that even if it means a confrontation with my dipshit of a brother just so mum can keep hers.
And so I commented on the post again saying:
DIRECTED AT CERTAIN MEMBERS OF THE PARNIS FAMILY BECAUSE SOME OF THEM ARE LYING TWO-FACED BASTARDS.
But decided that wasn't enough and re-shared the photo with this comment:
I WOULD LIKE IT TO BE KNOWN PUBLICLY, THAT THIS WAS DIRECTED TOWARDS CERTAIN MEMBERS OF THE PARNIS FAMILY AND NOT AS WAS MISUNDERSTOOD THE EATON FAMILY. Jeanette Eaton and Tanya Eaton please tell Anthony Eaton that he has misunderstood the whole thing and had no need to block mum and delete her. And that it was a dick move and as an adult could have easily messaged her and asked her what the fuck was going on before acting like a brat and deleting her.
And then sent him the following messages:
Rebecca Parnis
Comment posted, and the post has been re-shared. Since I couldn't tag you, Jeanette Tanya have been tagged instead and I'm sure you can see it off their page.
Rebecca Parnis
And think about it logically before you call me a liar: why would I post something about the Eatons when the only Eatons I know are Chris, Tanya, Jeanette, Katherine and I met David once when he came over on holiday? If it was meant for you, then why didn't mum post it? Because it was meant for my family, the Parnis family, which is the reason I posted it
He has seen it, but hasn't replied. I have been angry and pissed off all day now. Irritable to the max and likely to cry because I'm filled with such anger.
As I said on both facebook and tumblr:
When you read something, don’t assume it’s about you unless it specifically says your name.
But then again, if the shoe fits….