Mar 01, 2006 09:32
Sometime in a girls life you have to realize what is important to you and you have to respect what comes up in the future. Sometimes people are so stuck up in the past that they don't realize what they are going to miss out on or what they already are missing out on. The thing that I was talking about is my relationship with my father and my boyfriend. I'm going out with Daryl, and he's black. That's ok by me though because that doesn't change who he is. But I told my dad about it and he was screaming at me. I don't understand him sometimes. He says he wants to be in my life and after all the shit he did he has the nerve to judge me on the color of my boyfriend. I mean seriously it's not the 1800s and times have changed. He needs to realize that. I like Daryl a lot and he is the best thing that has happened to me so far. I'm just not really that attached. I can amit that I kind of am but I mean you should see him... lol! I don't even do anything and he is just there to make me happy. That's a real man. My mom is ok with him being my boyfriend. My mom gave me some morals and I stuck with them and this is one of the huge things that I have learned to be sure about. My father always tells me if I know that something is right and I know that it's the right thing to do then to stand up for what I believe in and even if you get into a fight or into trouble... You did the right thing. So, now I'm going to do the right thing and I'm going to stand up for Daryl on a count that he didn't do anything to anyone, My father doesn't even know him and I know that if my dad did like him that he would like him he's just really ignorant. He's like I can't believe that you would even think about doing that. But guess what that's to damn bad isn't it. I don't care as long as I'm happy that's all that matters.