33 - The Feeling Of Love
#KT42bdaychallenge #33
"If "respect" feelings doesn't exist, the feelings you have for someone won't stay long. Love feelings is something that will change as time goes by. I think, with only "love" feelings, it definitely won't be a good love/romance.
When you're in a relationship for so long, the time you spend together becomes monotonous, and somehow you wouldn't want to show your other side to your partner. But that is something difficult. When that happens, I think it's best if you just go back to the starting point. Just find your partner's charm, like her moves, or her words, and just get back to your feelings in the early times.
Of course, when you're in a relationship, you'll find something you hate from your partner. What I hate the most are eyes that has no emotions, smile that has no emotions, crying face, and lies. When I feel that, I don't just keep it to myself, but I want to tell about it to my partner frankly.
I don't know how my partner would react, but even if it becomes a big fight, I feel that it's better that way. I have confidence that in that way, I'll get a good love/romance much better than people who thinks things like that are troublesome. Because if you fake your own feelings, if you cover it with a weird kindness, your feelings will loosened. It's better when you say things frankly, although it's hard to say them. Being in a relationship, is also finding each other's line of limit where you can forgive each other's bad points." - KAI-HO-KU, Volume 46, September 1997
"If "respect" feelings doesn't exist, the feelings you have for someone won't stay long. Love feelings is something that will change as time goes by. I think, with only "love" feelings, it definitely won't be a good love/romance.
When you're in a relationship for so long, the time you spend together becomes monotonous, and somehow you wouldn't want to show your other side to your partner. But that is something difficult. When that happens, I think it's best if you just go back to the starting point. Just find your partner's charm, like her moves, or her words, and just get back to your feelings in the early times.
Of course, when you're in a relationship, you'll find something you hate from your partner. What I hate the most are eyes that has no emotions, smile that has no emotions, crying face, and lies. When I feel that, I don't just keep it to myself, but I want to tell about it to my partner frankly.
I don't know how my partner would react, but even if it becomes a big fight, I feel that it's better that way. I have confidence that in that way, I'll get a good love/romance much better than people who thinks things like that are troublesome. Because if you fake your own feelings, if you cover it with a weird kindness, your feelings will loosened. It's better when you say things frankly, although it's hard to say them. Being in a relationship, is also finding each other's line of limit where you can forgive each other's bad points." - KAI-HO-KU, Volume 46, September 1997