When "Friends" attack!
Well, things have come to light which has stunned me how low some people can go for a laugh or control freak quick fix or whatever motive (I may never know and will never understand why?)
I found out the reason I was under the illusion that my ex was causing me alot of troubles over our baby (See previous Jounal entries) was due to two "Friends" who had appointed themselves mediators between me and my ex partner.
Things seem to go from bad to worse with accusation going back and forth between me and me ex partner. Accusations which seemed too obviously wrong it was confusing to why we said such things about each other.
BUT due to a recent meeting between me and my ex (Without outside interference), we discovered the things we were telling our "Mediator friends" and the messages that were passed on were two completely different stories! And after comparing several emails, msn journals, etc. We found these two sick individuals had twisted all the facts, turned them into pure bullshit which kept the arguments between me and my ex fuelled.
These malicious rumours and lies had ended up with me turning my back on being a part of my own unborn sons life, made to think my partner was so vindictive that she wouldn't let me near my child and I'd quite trying to help with my child.
The truth now shows quite differently she is prepared not only to let me be a part of my own sons life, she is prepared to help me learn what I need as I have no clue and with NOW only weeks left to prepare myself physically and mentally for what I'm about to undertake.
I now feel so stupid for not trusting my instincts from a 10 year, solid friendship and nearly made the worst decision of my life due to these vicious, nasty, scheming, heartless individuals.
Regardless of all the hateful things me and my ex ended up calling each other, we sat down like the adults we are, talked things over and came to a perfect solution of giving this child the gift of having TWO caring parents in it's life.
What sick reason did they have to cause them to attack and deprive and UNBORN child the right to know who his father is and to grow up without seeing and living without a dad?
In the end these unforgivable assholes have done one good thing which is made us think about our previous relationship problem and realise, in comparison to their shit, our problems were so small and petty they are now not even worth mentioning. All they've suceeded to do is bring me and my ex closer together than we've evet been in our 10+ years friendship, trust each other beyond any friendship and ultimately made the bond between us now so strong that no one or nothing will break.
Needless to say, I've cut all ties from these evil people and me and my ex can now look forward to a life long friendship and a caring family life.
I found out the reason I was under the illusion that my ex was causing me alot of troubles over our baby (See previous Jounal entries) was due to two "Friends" who had appointed themselves mediators between me and my ex partner.
Things seem to go from bad to worse with accusation going back and forth between me and me ex partner. Accusations which seemed too obviously wrong it was confusing to why we said such things about each other.
BUT due to a recent meeting between me and my ex (Without outside interference), we discovered the things we were telling our "Mediator friends" and the messages that were passed on were two completely different stories! And after comparing several emails, msn journals, etc. We found these two sick individuals had twisted all the facts, turned them into pure bullshit which kept the arguments between me and my ex fuelled.
These malicious rumours and lies had ended up with me turning my back on being a part of my own unborn sons life, made to think my partner was so vindictive that she wouldn't let me near my child and I'd quite trying to help with my child.
The truth now shows quite differently she is prepared not only to let me be a part of my own sons life, she is prepared to help me learn what I need as I have no clue and with NOW only weeks left to prepare myself physically and mentally for what I'm about to undertake.
I now feel so stupid for not trusting my instincts from a 10 year, solid friendship and nearly made the worst decision of my life due to these vicious, nasty, scheming, heartless individuals.
Regardless of all the hateful things me and my ex ended up calling each other, we sat down like the adults we are, talked things over and came to a perfect solution of giving this child the gift of having TWO caring parents in it's life.
What sick reason did they have to cause them to attack and deprive and UNBORN child the right to know who his father is and to grow up without seeing and living without a dad?
In the end these unforgivable assholes have done one good thing which is made us think about our previous relationship problem and realise, in comparison to their shit, our problems were so small and petty they are now not even worth mentioning. All they've suceeded to do is bring me and my ex closer together than we've evet been in our 10+ years friendship, trust each other beyond any friendship and ultimately made the bond between us now so strong that no one or nothing will break.
Needless to say, I've cut all ties from these evil people and me and my ex can now look forward to a life long friendship and a caring family life.