RANT

[goodghirl]

I'm so fucking fed up of people having a problem with the fact I'm poly and with Jamie

1. I'm poly, I always have been

2. Jamie knows he's always known I've never hidden it

3. I love Jamie

4. I am on the look out for a play partner

5. it's really no one of your business who or what I do

I really don't understand people big issue with the fact I'm poly

Comments

Ponderings ..........

[lil_mynx_of_mrb]

Why do you care what they think? Why do you allow it to rattle you so much? You no more understand their issue with poly, than they understand poly. I think you are expecting people to be tolerant ...... people in general are not, and I think that is something you have to come to terms with, sad as it may be. I personally am not tolerant of everything, because it may well go against my feelings/thoughts/comfort zones. The jury is out on poly for me, I've seen ones that work, and ones that don't, as much as 1-2-1 relationships in fact! Poly is not personally for me, dosen't mean I don't understand it though. I am comfortable with B playing with others, but I have no desire to be with someone else, or have someone as a permanent feature in our relationship.

As long as you and Jamie are consenting and understanding of your desires and lifestyle, it does not matter, truly. You are not going to make everyone understand or accept, its rather like trying to make someone hetro understand being gay!. As long as you accept it yourself and understand it yourself, it dosen't matter. No one can make you feel bad, unless you give them the power to do so. So, YOU be comfortable with where you are, and maybe in time people will either give up trying to give "advice" or it could well be that their knowledge and comfort levels change?