JYJ'S Violence & Cussing Against Sasengs Scandal
Okay, seriously, I know I'm being all kpop-y & all again, but this has got me so riled up it's so hard to put it into words. Seems like it's just so hard to understand that idols are humans too? I'm not defending them in a way which tries to rewrite and denounce all wrongs. No one's perfect. & JYJ's far from perfect in certain ways; the real fans do realize that. I'm just saying that we could look at it from another perspective.
What the sasaeng fans have done is seriously crazy. Honestly, what Despatch has done too is totally unethical. Trying to expose the misdeeds of JYJ by invading into private phone conversations? C'mon, you're digging evidence of unethical actions by being unethical yourself. Where's the sense in all this? If they hadn't dug the phone conversations, the nasty fans themselves must have recorded/fabricated the audio clips because they were purely bitter...after their own half-assed actions.
Besides. Cussing over phone conversations is totally normal alright? Imagine if JYJ's totally drunk at their own leisure, private time & some crazy ass calls them & tells them some rubbish. You can't blame them for being drunk at that time or saying shit, you don't know how they were at that time. You can't control the idols' actions 24/7. They're human. Just like how you can act goody two shoes in front of some people & at home you're just your real self. The fans were wrong in the first place for being so extreme. Once again, using phone conversations to justify this is just completely unjustifiable.
This is an absolute case of lethal love, of an obsession so unthinkably scary you'd be scared/offended/disturbed if you were JYJ yourself. I'm not defending them on the provision that I'm an insane fan or anything. I'm just being reasonable, y'know?
Okay, so hitting probably did cross the line. But how do you know whether if the fans themselves had physically assaulted the boys or went over the limits themselves? You don't know the extent of insanity of these fans. If someone touches you without any respect, you gonna stay there like a boss & think to yourself for 10 seconds "Calm my tits, i gotta smile and just tell them no" all the time? Please. When in excessive, conditioned response teaches you to react in a way so that the other party gets your message. A guy touches you without respect, you whack his ass. Since this problem has been going for really long, (& they're probably the same group of repeated people), there had probably been on many occasions where JYJ had decently told them to stay away, but these people obviously wouldn't understand, would they?
After all that shit JYJ has been through, them being lonely/appreciative & having enough hardship this far, I don't think they'd take a chance at being shot mercilessly over stupid things like that. Some major triggering incident (like a fan being massively overboard) must have occurred or something.
Then again, the credibility of the incident's totally questionable in itself. If it's true that these clips were taken from 4 years ago, why were they only dug up now? It's like saying your favourite neighbour kicked you in the ass and called you horrible names, then you shut up for 4 years before you decide one day to tell the entire world about it. For all we know, the entire thing could've been fabricated. C'mon, if they were real crazy fans there'd be fancams. Y we no see any fancams of pushing/shoving/"shoved them with throngs of violence" clips?
Insane, isn't it?
Just saying.
What the sasaeng fans have done is seriously crazy. Honestly, what Despatch has done too is totally unethical. Trying to expose the misdeeds of JYJ by invading into private phone conversations? C'mon, you're digging evidence of unethical actions by being unethical yourself. Where's the sense in all this? If they hadn't dug the phone conversations, the nasty fans themselves must have recorded/fabricated the audio clips because they were purely bitter...after their own half-assed actions.
Besides. Cussing over phone conversations is totally normal alright? Imagine if JYJ's totally drunk at their own leisure, private time & some crazy ass calls them & tells them some rubbish. You can't blame them for being drunk at that time or saying shit, you don't know how they were at that time. You can't control the idols' actions 24/7. They're human. Just like how you can act goody two shoes in front of some people & at home you're just your real self. The fans were wrong in the first place for being so extreme. Once again, using phone conversations to justify this is just completely unjustifiable.
This is an absolute case of lethal love, of an obsession so unthinkably scary you'd be scared/offended/disturbed if you were JYJ yourself. I'm not defending them on the provision that I'm an insane fan or anything. I'm just being reasonable, y'know?
Okay, so hitting probably did cross the line. But how do you know whether if the fans themselves had physically assaulted the boys or went over the limits themselves? You don't know the extent of insanity of these fans. If someone touches you without any respect, you gonna stay there like a boss & think to yourself for 10 seconds "Calm my tits, i gotta smile and just tell them no" all the time? Please. When in excessive, conditioned response teaches you to react in a way so that the other party gets your message. A guy touches you without respect, you whack his ass. Since this problem has been going for really long, (& they're probably the same group of repeated people), there had probably been on many occasions where JYJ had decently told them to stay away, but these people obviously wouldn't understand, would they?
After all that shit JYJ has been through, them being lonely/appreciative & having enough hardship this far, I don't think they'd take a chance at being shot mercilessly over stupid things like that. Some major triggering incident (like a fan being massively overboard) must have occurred or something.
Then again, the credibility of the incident's totally questionable in itself. If it's true that these clips were taken from 4 years ago, why were they only dug up now? It's like saying your favourite neighbour kicked you in the ass and called you horrible names, then you shut up for 4 years before you decide one day to tell the entire world about it. For all we know, the entire thing could've been fabricated. C'mon, if they were real crazy fans there'd be fancams. Y we no see any fancams of pushing/shoving/"shoved them with throngs of violence" clips?
Insane, isn't it?
Just saying.