Vicky's Father.. Part 2
This is a followup from this post.
So, we were suppose to meet up and do a DNA test back in mid-september. That never happened. As I reminided him in the beginning of Sept. about the test, he claimed he was gonna be in Mississippi helping out the hurricane's survivors. He works for AT&T as a digital tech. Now, I kinda believe he went to Mississppi to help out cause i remember when hurricane katrina happened back in 2005, he went to New Orleans to help out. But anyway, he said he would be back in the beginning of October. So, I texted him 3 times since October 1st, since that's the only way he'll talk to me, and recieve no reply back. He doesn't answers my calls because he hates it when i speak my mind, and he's a chicken shit. So, I finally took matters in my owns hands. I went to Child Support Services (CSS). Yep. Alot of people asked me what took me so long. But i guess i was just too damn nice! I gave him chances, so many chances, about seeing Vicky, and helping me out with her. Granted, he was there for the first 7 months of her life, but then after he found out i was pregnant again, he did a disappearing act. Great, huh? So, after much pleading and asking, he now claimed that vicky isn't his, and was only there for me and her because he loved us.. or so he said, which by the way was a big pile of doo-doo. :) So yeah, my case is "Processed".. and soon, they (CSS) will be doing the DNA test for Paternity.. and then his ass will pay. He should of listened to me. I first told him that I didn't want his money. All I wanted from him is to see and acknowledged her as his own, but he couldn't even do that. Now come on, how many "baby's mama" is gonna say that? Most baby's mama would hit the money pocket off the daddy, but I didn't. All I wanted from him was to acknowledge her and treat her as his own. But now, I might as well take something from him since he put me in on an emotional roller coaster. I got tired of waiting on him to just think about wanting to see Vicky or not. So, now, I guess I'll go ahead and do what my friends and family have been telling me for the past year.
Jimmy aka Vicky's Father
Vicky aka my daughter
and the last time i got a picture of them both together..
This pic above makes me kinda sad whenever i look at it, cause he actually had fun with vicky that day. I remember that like it was yesterday.
Tomorrow night, I'm gonna be a ninja and drive to his house, which is about an hour away from where i live, and get his truck tag number. CSS want to know if i can get the tag number so they can put it in the computer system. So, that's what I'm gonna do. Hubby is wanting to come with me, so this will be interesting. so, I'll update on that when I get back.
So, we were suppose to meet up and do a DNA test back in mid-september. That never happened. As I reminided him in the beginning of Sept. about the test, he claimed he was gonna be in Mississippi helping out the hurricane's survivors. He works for AT&T as a digital tech. Now, I kinda believe he went to Mississppi to help out cause i remember when hurricane katrina happened back in 2005, he went to New Orleans to help out. But anyway, he said he would be back in the beginning of October. So, I texted him 3 times since October 1st, since that's the only way he'll talk to me, and recieve no reply back. He doesn't answers my calls because he hates it when i speak my mind, and he's a chicken shit. So, I finally took matters in my owns hands. I went to Child Support Services (CSS). Yep. Alot of people asked me what took me so long. But i guess i was just too damn nice! I gave him chances, so many chances, about seeing Vicky, and helping me out with her. Granted, he was there for the first 7 months of her life, but then after he found out i was pregnant again, he did a disappearing act. Great, huh? So, after much pleading and asking, he now claimed that vicky isn't his, and was only there for me and her because he loved us.. or so he said, which by the way was a big pile of doo-doo. :) So yeah, my case is "Processed".. and soon, they (CSS) will be doing the DNA test for Paternity.. and then his ass will pay. He should of listened to me. I first told him that I didn't want his money. All I wanted from him is to see and acknowledged her as his own, but he couldn't even do that. Now come on, how many "baby's mama" is gonna say that? Most baby's mama would hit the money pocket off the daddy, but I didn't. All I wanted from him was to acknowledge her and treat her as his own. But now, I might as well take something from him since he put me in on an emotional roller coaster. I got tired of waiting on him to just think about wanting to see Vicky or not. So, now, I guess I'll go ahead and do what my friends and family have been telling me for the past year.
Jimmy aka Vicky's Father
Vicky aka my daughter
and the last time i got a picture of them both together..
This pic above makes me kinda sad whenever i look at it, cause he actually had fun with vicky that day. I remember that like it was yesterday.
Tomorrow night, I'm gonna be a ninja and drive to his house, which is about an hour away from where i live, and get his truck tag number. CSS want to know if i can get the tag number so they can put it in the computer system. So, that's what I'm gonna do. Hubby is wanting to come with me, so this will be interesting. so, I'll update on that when I get back.