Ok, now that i have cooled down, and have somewhat of a level head...
Please read the entire post before you decide to pass judgement
I somewhat have a more level head...i say somewhat...because before i read someone's journal...i was doing ok...but now i see that she's going to make this a cluster fuck and as tony said "she's waaaaay over reacting. she has a right to her feelings but this is taking it a little to far ( Read more... )
I somewhat have a more level head...i say somewhat...because before i read someone's journal...i was doing ok...but now i see that she's going to make this a cluster fuck and as tony said "she's waaaaay over reacting. she has a right to her feelings but this is taking it a little to far ( Read more... )
You are right about what you said about her, but I know her in person and I can tell you! She is soooo not like this in person but online, in her journals, blogs, and the such. she is. I guess once we enter the online world...we just become totally different people, and she is no exception. She has this way of opening her mouth before thinking and it gets her in heaps of trouble and she's always doing a sort of "kicking herself in the ass" routine. At least when she says something bad, she feels bad about it later (hence why she was apologizing in this entry, I guess)...that's lots more than I can say about other people I have met. You know, the friends you have who say nasty things all the friggin time with no remorse. Not directed at you btw e_e; I just have personal connections to people like this and it's upsetting.
IDK, I didn't see this entry as calling out for empathy. I merely took it as...she is putting out an apology for how she worded her previous entry (not sure if you know about that or not...she said it was leaked to someone else's journal) but she still stands by her subject about obese people who constantly whine about being fat yet do nothing about the issue except add to the problem. I agree with her on THAT respect...I don't agree with how she said it and stuff. It was really hurtful but I understood where she was coming from (since my dorm room mate was one of those types).
She put out her apology and at that point, the ball is in the receiving court and it's up to them if they want to accept her apology and move on, or continue to be upset about it.
I guess we are both pretty upset by what she said, and I felt hurt at the time but I've accepted her apology and I agree with what someone above said...that this is a silly thing to lose a friendship over. I can relate sometimes to posting things with out thinking and returning to late to prevent the damage.
Thank you for responding. It is a nice needed break from these take home midterms that are making me pull out my hair :) pfft, At this point...I am sure she gets notifications on anon....I don't care if she reads this.
oh, btw. still didn't answer my question. I am still curious as to what made you reply to the post 2 months late o_o
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