Ok, now that i have cooled down, and have somewhat of a level head...

[goddessastra]

Please read the entire post before you decide to pass judgement

I somewhat have a more level head...i say somewhat...because before i read someone's journal...i was doing ok...but now i see that she's going to make this a cluster fuck and as tony said "she's waaaaay over reacting. she has a right to her feelings but this is taking it a little to far

Comments

[anafrost]

I think if you were able to justify your last posts as having "the right" to be expressing your pissed off opinion(by telling fat people who've done nothing bad to you but continue their existence that you hope they die of a heart attack), then your ex friend has a right to be overreacting.

Not everyone is a pillow that eats like you think they might be. They all have their own issues and problems and will ask for help when the WANT to recieve it. You cannot thrust it upon someone unexpectedly. People don't work that way. They have what we call "free will" and are entitled to that like you are entitled to express yourself.

Despite this being LJ, your own personal e blog, real people with emotions read this. No matter how pissed of you are, you have to keep an open mind and always think before speaking. You never know when something you type will give off the WRONG impression on what's on your mind and what you're REALLY upset about.

I'm glad you understand what you did was wrong but you shouldn't use your "opinion" as a knife to hurt someone's self esteem. Some people don't pay mind to the way they look because they know people just find them fun to be with regardless and are happy with just that. You shouldn't be picking them apart over something so superficial. Humans are extremely complex and we cannot always base them by a majority.