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hmm, how do you figure out if a queer person you know and like is homosexual or bisexual or... no wait a minute, they can identify how they like... minefield... lets just say "interested in your particular gender"? I mean bar directly asking them, which could be rude. I guess it's not much different from trying to figure things out with someone of a definitely compatible orientation, but it's nice to be able to avoid the awkward early on; usually folk with a partner broadcast it but people are a bit more cagey about their sexuality.