Feb 07, 2006 08:37
Yes, i am awful at this whole updating ALL of what i wanted to say, anyone who doesnt want to scroll back, heres the recap and the ending...
So i promised an update when i got back, and by god im aiming to please, and since i have another hour and a half to kill before class i decided that updating in the JC would be the best idea, i really like the computer labs here, and with my ipod i dont have to listen to stupid banter or cell phones going off. :)
So i returned home on saturday the 19th of december, i finished my 4th semester at mason and was finally home. After a few days of seeing the boys and general stupidity, and much last minute x-mas shopping (>_<) My mother finally told me that we were gonna move into the new house with Jerry, now, lets just say that Jerry must be wtfloaded with cash, because this house is huge. If your one of the few people (or anyone from mason) who hasnt seen it, then you need to, its sweet. But, my mother said to me when we got the place that "This room is yours, you have your own door to come and go as you please, you have your own bathroom with a shower (which by the way is the best shower i've ever had, and havent taken one here yet because i know it wont live up to my recient standards.), its like your own little appartment. Lets just say if it had a kitchen i'd never leave. I REALLY love that room, possobly because i spent most of my break trying to deck the place out, when i go back home and get a cord for my digital camara, ill post pics on Facebook. I've been very happy with it, its so freeing and so comforting to have your 'own' place. Its isolated from the house, and its just...well...mine.
Well, we got most of the shit moved out of moms house, thank you Adam, Mandi, and Jesse for the assist. It didnt take too long, but it was very irritating and some of the shit was quite heavy indeed! But after it was all moved in momma paid the 4 of us and we got wicked high as balls to celebrate. So After 4 days of being home it was Dec 23th! Low and behold my sister and the 4 little monsters showed up for the holidays! It was so good to see the kids, to watch them grow up without being their parent is a real blessing in disguse. And my sisters is one hell of a parent, she can keep all 4 of them in line with one finger, they wont even listen if i was screaming at them. But thats ok, being uncle Jeffman has its perks, playing with the kids, being a goofball and just enjoying the kids company. Not to mention my sister, who along with me, toked out of the Wanda! The fish she got me, she says she hasnt even used hers yet, i told her im going to GA to fucking break that thing in. She is such a noob smoker though, it was really funny. She got tore up off a bowl pack and then we watched 40 year old virgin which was fucking halarious and, if you havent seen in, dude smokes out of an apple...humm...thats a damn good idea, but my sister was far from ready for roun 2 so it would have to wait.
I ended up having x-mas with dad and co at 9am, and we did it all in under an hour and 30, with 6 people there i was surprized. I walked away with very little from Dad's, i was kind of upset until i found out later that Dad had never gotten the list i had sent him (yes i still make a list at my parents request). After a post-x-mas shop i got 1Gb of Ram, 1Gb Flash Disk, and iPod Shuffle, Some nice new shirts, 40 y/o Virgin, and some cash money. When they finished up they all went to church leaving me at the house by myself with 3 hours to spare before work, so i packed up my bags, grabbed my santa hat and headded over to moms to see the kids on x-mas (since i was supposed to come after work), i surprized everyone. Got some great gifts from mom, jerry, and sis. iPod Nano (YAYAYAYAYAYA), new shoes, cool clothes, and other various goodies. The kids when i got in the door all exploded "JJJJJJJEEEEEFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!" i thought i heard a ZOMG somewhere in there...:P But x-mas and the first day of That H day that i cant spell :( sorry jewish people i offend. But it was fun helping the kids light candles and to watch them rampage as small children are prone to do. All in all a damn good x-mas and after the 1st day of that other holiday around x-mas :P, someone came back home...Heh, more on that later when i have more time...:)
...And the new stuff
After Cam and the kids packed up and shipped out, the only holiday left was...Newyears, a time i spent at dooley's house with Dooley (obviously) Tony, Jesse, Ben, Tracy, and Sara. Good times were had by all, there was much drinking and shanagains. Power hour from 10:50 till 12:00 was pro, and i got wicked hammered. Not much to tell other then that really. Heh.
Well, i didnt quite give you all the information with who was comming home, that person was kristin. She was the first person i saw when i got back, she invited me over for dinner and i couldnt say no to a free meal, a pretty face, and good company. Well, i dunno, it was a damn good dinner, but we just connected, the way we used to, the way it should be. And i dunno, it sparked something in me that i had'nt felt since...well...her. That night I asked her to be my girlfriend again and (no shocker) she accepted. But then she had to leave for x-mas, but with her return, things were damn good. And things still are good, I am happy to be back with her, at times more so then others. Im just worried of doing the same damn thing, where everything is fine, untill distance and then i just go nuts because A. I cant see her, B. I cant stand phones, and C. our relationship has never been 100% appart. As always when we're together everything is cool, but when we're not. Its not, and i just see that same road ahead and yes, im scared of it too. But ya know, this life is all about the friends you make and the people who loved you, and that you loved. And wile maybe this relationship may taper off eventually, it doesnt have to any time soon. I do love this girl, and I am nuts about her. And isnt that what it's all about?
If its not this is the part where you stop reading, get up out of your chair and go somewhere private and fuck yourself. :)
After some pro ass chill time with the crew, off time with the folks, and 8 hours every so often at sheetz, it was beginning to be a really nice break, good times, good friends, just good shit all around. Having my fair share of fun, i got to smoke in a restraunt that is famous in H-burg, if you've ever been to luigi's you know what the fuck im talking about. But i got reaquainted with TJ and some old friends there, and my good friend Mary, who is always one to liven up a party. There really wasnt anything that could top any of that or...was there...
My friend Jesse is indeed a youngin' and granted, he was always joked on for smoking and yet not being able to buy his own smokes...well the day finally came, January 11th that sum bitch turned 18, and for his birthday, Tony had the brilliant Idea of taking him to...Vixins...the best fucking strip club in the fucking world in my honest opinion. We drove up there (I, not knowing what to expect this being my first time as well as Jesse's.) and as soon as we got there we knew that this was a fucking awesome decision. There was titties everywhere, and holy shit these girls had no shame and all night to flaunt it. We got there at 8:30 and stayed till 3. There are no words for how awesome it was, there were hot seats, lap dances, shower rooms, hot half naked chicks everywhere...it was the most vulgar form of a male heaven. We had a fucking blast and to surprize jesse, Kristin and Laura came up as well. And the 6 of us (Me, tony, jesse, dooley, Kristin and Laura.) all had a fucking good time. It was really funny to see the girls getting more looks then the guys. Laura got bit by a stripper!! ROFLS! Jesse's birthday also gave me the oppertunity to see something i had never seen before, someone getting a tatto. Jesse got a sweet tat on his chest, and it got me thinking of what the fuck i wanted inked into my skin for the rest of my life, i have no idea what but ill be the one desiging it. Maybe for my 21st or something...ah who knows.
My relationship with my folks continues to shift around, my Mom and I are on the same level, we know what im doing, we know what i need to do, and we know what the hell will help me. Dad on the other hand doesnt know shit, and it...well...not hurts me, but pains me to know that me and my dad arent nearly as close as we were 3 even 2 years ago. I love both of my parents, sometimes i just have to leave dad in the dark. He knows me probably better then anyone else, but i just cant tell him everything without him over reacting and pitching a fit. But, alas that is the way it has to be, maybe when he's older and less able to cut me off from everyhting ill tell him what an asshole i really was at this age. Ah well.
My first couple of weeks back at mason have been rather smooth, even with these harder classes i think i'll do ok. I've been slacking off more and more and i can sense it. But if i can push myself to not be such a tard, i think ill make it through this semeseter and come back for another...GASP. There have been fun times, and regretable i haevnt been able to stick to any one of my promises to myself, i cant stop smoking anything. (Tho i havent bought a pack since the first week, and i've only smoked on saturdays and early sunday mornings if you really want to get technical.) I havent started working out tho i hope to start if i can get this room in libery. Only time will tell, and thats all the time i have to tell. Adios ladies and gents, untill something else happens that i feel i need to update you on.