what?
Sitting on the couch computer-ing at 2:30. Tried to go to sleep about 10:30. I eventually just gave up and came out here to do... stuff. Blah.
Tomorrow Ed leaves to go to New York for a few days to do a couple things. One is to have a meeting with some of Kathy's clients and get a check for the two of us *crosses fingers*
The other is to take his dog, Zelda to his ex-girlfriend where she will live for 4 months, and then we get her for the next 4.
This is someone that Ed dated and lived with for 5 years. She has a new boyfriend, and they've recently moved to New York. The old way things used to work is that Ed would meet her, or she would just come over to the house, to pick Zelda up every couple weeks. 2 weeks with her, 2 weeks with us.
Someone please tell me I'm not the only one that thinks this is crazy/inappropriate. Or am I just blowing this out of proportion? I need someone else's opinion!
I've asked Ed about it and his story in a nutshell is that the two of them got Zelda 3 years ago when she was a puppy and they were still together. He got busy with work and she would take care of the dog. This eventually got to a cycle where Ed could leave and go DJ or travel or whatever after they broke up and she would take care of Zelda, and when he got back he would pick her up.
He said he does it to try to be a nice guy because she loves the dog too. But they broke up over 2 years ago! Is having joint-custody of a dog a thing normal, never engaged, never married people do?
Please help. This is driving me crazy.
Barbie
Tomorrow Ed leaves to go to New York for a few days to do a couple things. One is to have a meeting with some of Kathy's clients and get a check for the two of us *crosses fingers*
The other is to take his dog, Zelda to his ex-girlfriend where she will live for 4 months, and then we get her for the next 4.
This is someone that Ed dated and lived with for 5 years. She has a new boyfriend, and they've recently moved to New York. The old way things used to work is that Ed would meet her, or she would just come over to the house, to pick Zelda up every couple weeks. 2 weeks with her, 2 weeks with us.
Someone please tell me I'm not the only one that thinks this is crazy/inappropriate. Or am I just blowing this out of proportion? I need someone else's opinion!
I've asked Ed about it and his story in a nutshell is that the two of them got Zelda 3 years ago when she was a puppy and they were still together. He got busy with work and she would take care of the dog. This eventually got to a cycle where Ed could leave and go DJ or travel or whatever after they broke up and she would take care of Zelda, and when he got back he would pick her up.
He said he does it to try to be a nice guy because she loves the dog too. But they broke up over 2 years ago! Is having joint-custody of a dog a thing normal, never engaged, never married people do?
Please help. This is driving me crazy.
Barbie