ok, it should be posting now. i apologize for my earlier incompetence and thank that minamin person for her patience and help. the pictures might not be up yet
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Currently torn.vicedrivenNovember 17 2004, 11:11:54 UTC
"Sex is great on heroin, in my opinion." In my experience the dehydration often complicates sex. Do you not get dehydrated?
I honestly feel guilty about this, but I doubt the authenticity here. Some things seem slightly...calculated or designed to please the taste of the members here. Anyone get that same impression?
Re: Currently torn.minaminaminaNovember 17 2004, 11:59:10 UTC
You know, you're right. I mean, I never get dry, but you CANNOT orgasm on heroin. It's basically just tiring to have sex...sensuality, yes, but sex is just...blah. Long and awkward.
Re: Currently torn.dystopiateNovember 17 2004, 12:03:04 UTC
HA. meaning you think i'm lying about my taste in things or my experience? well, i am the most honest junkie i've ever met, and i am also very arrogant, so that's not something i would do. if i knew you, i'd be offended by your accusations of dishonesty.
and, i don't have dehydration problems, because i am constantly drinking water. i never get hung over. i am attracted to fellow heroin users, for one, and being high turns me on. as does the process of getting high (as in, shooting up). i have known many to argue, but from my experience sex on heroin is the greatest experience i have ever had.
I will lay aside my doubt, for the sake of argument.
My problem remains to be the mechanics of sex on heroin. If you can have phenomenal sex while doped up be glad you are such an anomaly. I drink water heavily too, but it only succeeds in fighting off the dry mouth.
"HOW DOES HEROIN AFFECT SEXUALITY?
In smaller doses many users find that heroin stimulates libido, and increases sensuality and connection with a partner. Orgasm is generally more difficult to achieve, but this can prolong the sexual act and enjoyment. In larger doses orgasm may prove impossible, which can be frustrating, and some people find it embarrassing.
In dependent users, high doses, out of control stress levels and a poor state of general physical health often contributes to suppress libido. This generally returns (with a vengeance) following withdrawal. Many users also find that sex helps relieve tension during withdrawal, while other users find physical touch abhorrent during this brief period." -From erowid.com
Re: Hmmm...dystopiateNovember 17 2004, 13:37:52 UTC
do you mean that heroin/dehydration inhibits the body's production of vaginal lubrication? this has never been a problem for me.
the most sexually gratifying relationship i have ever had was with a fellow user of heroin, and we were on heroin most of the times we had sex. he did not have problems with havnig an erection or orgasming. i did not have lubrication problems. i rarely orgasm regardless, and orgasms aren't the desired effect of sex for me, just pleasurable feelings.
i never thought to consider myself unusual for really enjoying heroin sex. if i am, well ... neat. i'm lucky.
i consume over a gallon of water, in addition to tea and sometimes fruit juice, daily. when using drugs, i drink even more. i also make it a point when using heroin and alcohol to drink three or four 8 ounce glasses of water while brushing my teeth before i go to sleep. this prevents hangovers.
I definitely find a heightened interest sex, especially with that feeling of connectedness, but find that a nice dose of the substance in question complicates orgasm. I suspect his is probably due to the fact that your brain is already flooded with serotonin and dopamine.
I appreciate the time you took to discuss this with me. I think it speaks to your willingness to be active in the community.
Re: Hmmm...minaminaminaNovember 17 2004, 16:48:27 UTC
You are quite lucky. While most women never really achieve orgasm anyway, most men NEVER do on heroin.
And I also keep well hydrated, so I'm never poorly lubricated, but that serves as something to throw up when I get high.
And I see that you have been online to respond to comments, so I'm going to ask you to take one second of your time and make this application friends-only. A request from a moderator.
Re: Hmmm...dystopiateNovember 17 2004, 22:39:05 UTC
do you mean, that on the entry in my livejournal, where i wrote the application, and i put "post to" this community, that on the "security" option, i select "friends"? i have done this. i did it from the start. i don't know why you keep telling me to do it, unless you are refering to something else, and if so, please tell me what that is and how to do it. i guess i need to add an apology here too for my ignorance on the mechanics of livejournal.
Re: Hmmm...dystopiateNovember 18 2004, 13:46:19 UTC
you're going to have to tell me what i am doing incorrectly, and how to ammend this. i will be more than willing.
like i said, when i originally posted the application, i selected the "friends" option on the "security" box. every time you have mentinoed that my application need to be made "friends only," i have checked, by going to "edit entry," and re-entered this and clicked "save changes." last night, i changed the option for "security" to "private."it was during the period when i had it this way that you last told me to "make my post 'friends only.'" i've switched "security" back to "friends" now, though. please just tell me if "friends only" means something else, and if so, how i would go about making my post that way. if this is what it means, then i really don't know how to do it any more, and if it's for some reason not working, i can't fix this.
Re: Hmmm...dystopiateNovember 19 2004, 11:55:03 UTC
yeah. i've had the image of the lock the whole time. last night, i changed it to a custom thingy, so that only people in this community could see the post. did that work?
Re: Hmmm...dystopiateNovember 20 2004, 12:24:45 UTC
well i don't know what else to do. mina? any advice? is this why i have not gotten my acceptance thingy yet? i have the required vote and am anxiously awaiting my official acceptance into the community. if this is what's holding me back, let me know, and let me know what to do about it.
I honestly feel guilty about this, but I doubt the authenticity here. Some things seem slightly...calculated or designed to please the taste of the members here. Anyone get that same impression?
I'm undecided for now.
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You know, you're right. I mean, I never get dry, but you CANNOT orgasm on heroin. It's basically just tiring to have sex...sensuality, yes, but sex is just...blah. Long and awkward.
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and, i don't have dehydration problems, because i am constantly drinking water. i never get hung over. i am attracted to fellow heroin users, for one, and being high turns me on. as does the process of getting high (as in, shooting up). i have known many to argue, but from my experience sex on heroin is the greatest experience i have ever had.
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My problem remains to be the mechanics of sex on heroin. If you can have phenomenal sex while doped up be glad you are such an anomaly. I drink water heavily too, but it only succeeds in fighting off the dry mouth.
"HOW DOES HEROIN AFFECT SEXUALITY?
In smaller doses many users find that heroin stimulates libido, and increases sensuality and connection with a partner. Orgasm is generally more difficult to achieve, but this can prolong the sexual act and enjoyment. In larger doses orgasm may prove impossible, which can be frustrating, and some people find it embarrassing.
In dependent users, high doses, out of control stress levels and a poor state of general physical health often contributes to suppress libido. This generally returns (with a vengeance) following withdrawal. Many users also find that sex helps relieve tension during withdrawal, while other users find physical touch abhorrent during this brief period." -From erowid.com
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the most sexually gratifying relationship i have ever had was with a fellow user of heroin, and we were on heroin most of the times we had sex. he did not have problems with havnig an erection or orgasming. i did not have lubrication problems. i rarely orgasm regardless, and orgasms aren't the desired effect of sex for me, just pleasurable feelings.
i never thought to consider myself unusual for really enjoying heroin sex. if i am, well ... neat. i'm lucky.
i consume over a gallon of water, in addition to tea and sometimes fruit juice, daily. when using drugs, i drink even more. i also make it a point when using heroin and alcohol to drink three or four 8 ounce glasses of water while brushing my teeth before i go to sleep. this prevents hangovers.
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I definitely find a heightened interest sex, especially with that feeling of connectedness, but find that a nice dose of the substance in question complicates orgasm. I suspect his is probably due to the fact that your brain is already flooded with serotonin and dopamine.
I appreciate the time you took to discuss this with me. I think it speaks to your willingness to be active in the community.
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You are quite lucky. While most women never really achieve orgasm anyway, most men NEVER do on heroin.
And I also keep well hydrated, so I'm never poorly lubricated, but that serves as something to throw up when I get high.
And I see that you have been online to respond to comments, so I'm going to ask you to take one second of your time and make this application friends-only. A request from a moderator.
mina
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You haven't done this, because the entry is obviously not friends-only, and you have nudity in this application, so it needs to be friends-only.
mina
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like i said, when i originally posted the application, i selected the "friends" option on the "security" box. every time you have mentinoed that my application need to be made "friends only," i have checked, by going to "edit entry," and re-entered this and clicked "save changes." last night, i changed the option for "security" to "private."it was during the period when i had it this way that you last told me to "make my post 'friends only.'" i've switched "security" back to "friends" now, though. please just tell me if "friends only" means something else, and if so, how i would go about making my post that way. if this is what it means, then i really don't know how to do it any more, and if it's for some reason not working, i can't fix this.
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I do not.
Others probably don't either and I'm guessing this is why mina keeps requesting you edit the post.
...Just trying to help.
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Maybe Mina can help you do it. I'm not sure what powers moderators possess.
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