Memories
I always try to make "memories" with my kids, especially during the holidays. There are a lot of crap that happens in life. The memories are what you look back on later and provide the warm fuzzies. My mom is always worried that her kids (5 of us) only remember all the hard/bad times, I remember all the FUN she made for us. It still amazes her that we don't remember the bad. I hope to be JUST LIKE MY MOM when I grow up!