Problems with friends
So yeah I was talking to some friends last night about some of our friends that are having issues with various things in their lives right now. We came to the conclusion that the one friend just needs to be love-ed real heavily right now and the other we are still at a loss for words. I was thinking as I was talking to my two friends about my other friends that have the issues, why the crap is all this happening. Why have we been so blind or so intentionally ignorant of our friends to allow this to happen. My one friend almost refuses to talk to people about herself, she never opens up and that is really friggin annoying because you want to help, try to help, but they when seeing you "nosing" in their business get defensive and hid again. I sometimes want to just give up on them, but then I realize if I do that then what kind of friend am I, what kind of Christian am I, and what kind of person am I? I love my friends too dearly and would rather them "hate" me for bugging them into submission then to let them slip away completely.