Between a Rock and a Hard Place
Ok, I have a problem...nothing serious, and it's probably pretty stupid, but it sucks anyways.
A few weeks ago my sister asked me if I wanted to go to a Justin Beiber concert with her. I died a little bit inside, because it wasn't that long ago that we would make fun of him together [no offence if anyone on my f-list likes him], and now she's a fan. I can't stand him myself, in fact I kind of want to punch him in the face, but I was sort of guilted into saying that I'd go with her, when it's pretty much the last thing I want to do! At first I laughed and flat out refused, saying that no way would I be caught dead at at Beiber concert, but my dad pulled the "you're her big sister, and you won't have to pay for anything" card, so I grudingly said yes. I thought I'd been rescued when she found out the total price and my mom said it was wayyy too expensive, but now my sister is working, and saving up specifically so she - we - can go to the show! Help me!!! I really don't want to go, but if I felt like I'd be the bad guy saying no in the first place, I really will be the bad guy if I back out now. And I don't know what to do about it. Why would she even ask me? She knows I loath the kid, and everything he stands for, and yet she still expects me to go? How does that work. Sure, I'm a pushover, and she's my best friend, but still! She's allowed to say no when I invite her to things, even if I really want her to go, and she can ditch me with no backlash when she says yes and then changes her mind, but I'm not allowed to? Not very fair is it? No, I didn't think so.
Anyways, I'll shut up now. I just had to vent that.
Peace and glitter,
Hellie
A few weeks ago my sister asked me if I wanted to go to a Justin Beiber concert with her. I died a little bit inside, because it wasn't that long ago that we would make fun of him together [no offence if anyone on my f-list likes him], and now she's a fan. I can't stand him myself, in fact I kind of want to punch him in the face, but I was sort of guilted into saying that I'd go with her, when it's pretty much the last thing I want to do! At first I laughed and flat out refused, saying that no way would I be caught dead at at Beiber concert, but my dad pulled the "you're her big sister, and you won't have to pay for anything" card, so I grudingly said yes. I thought I'd been rescued when she found out the total price and my mom said it was wayyy too expensive, but now my sister is working, and saving up specifically so she - we - can go to the show! Help me!!! I really don't want to go, but if I felt like I'd be the bad guy saying no in the first place, I really will be the bad guy if I back out now. And I don't know what to do about it. Why would she even ask me? She knows I loath the kid, and everything he stands for, and yet she still expects me to go? How does that work. Sure, I'm a pushover, and she's my best friend, but still! She's allowed to say no when I invite her to things, even if I really want her to go, and she can ditch me with no backlash when she says yes and then changes her mind, but I'm not allowed to? Not very fair is it? No, I didn't think so.
Anyways, I'll shut up now. I just had to vent that.
Peace and glitter,
Hellie