Some people are just assholes, you should have told him to shut the fuck up. Honestly, some people just need to be directly told. My friend's family was also hit by the natural disaster, but none of them were killed. It's horrible when those things happen. I'm sure your friend will contact you soon. No worries.
I think if you don't say something in return when you're being harrassed that you tend to feel like a total victim. My whole life, up into middle school people picked on me. And I never said anything, I just took it and cried when I got home. And after a while I was like, "This is bullshit." So the next time it happened I took action. And it worked. I didn't have to develope a sense of FEAR in others around me, I just had to set the bar straight that I was nice, but not to be messed with.
Some people are total assholes and just thrive on attacking others. (Omg, especially those a-holes who are in a group and do it to make their friends laugh.) They need either TOLD firmly to stop, or screamed at. Haha OR you could talk to your supervisor about him. Say his name calling etc has been interfering with your work and you'd like for it to end.
Thanks for sharing that with me Jill. Likewise, all of my school years I was picked on, so I guess it sort of paralyses me when it still happens today.
I admire that you stood up to them though, that takes alot of balls.
Thanks for the advice, i'll remember that next time someone tries to make me feel like shit.
They are fucking fantastic. No, i've never seen them live - I din't even know about them 'till Diandra sent me a CD with them on it. I love them though, that must have been one hell of a show!!!
My friend's family was also hit by the natural disaster, but none of them were killed. It's horrible when those things happen.
I'm sure your friend will contact you soon. No worries.
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I am so glad your family friend/s are ok.
Thanks Jill, I appreciate what you say.
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My whole life, up into middle school people picked on me. And I never said anything, I just took it and cried when I got home. And after a while I was like, "This is bullshit." So the next time it happened I took action. And it worked. I didn't have to develope a sense of FEAR in others around me, I just had to set the bar straight that I was nice, but not to be messed with.
Some people are total assholes and just thrive on attacking others. (Omg, especially those a-holes who are in a group and do it to make their friends laugh.)
They need either TOLD firmly to stop, or screamed at.
Haha OR you could talk to your supervisor about him. Say his name calling etc has been interfering with your work and you'd like for it to end.
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I admire that you stood up to them though, that takes alot of balls.
Thanks for the advice, i'll remember that next time someone tries to make me feel like shit.
Take Care
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Ever seen them live? I saw them once with Paradise Lost and Opeth in NYC. Good show..
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