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hello
I was really delighted to see the replies to my message. I'm aware that the first couple were quite defensive, but they didn't need to be, as I wasn't particularly having a go at either of you. I have no problem at all with how Louise has handled her lj regarding her split. I deliberately didn't want to mention any names in my message. my problem was more with the people who didn't know the situation at all but then went and offered their judgement on it anyway.
as it happens, MOWH hasn't bitched to me at all. he's been the same post split as pre split really, ie not talking about it. I'm actually quite neutral on the whole thing. 2 good people who have upset each other in a most unfortunate way, that's all it is to me. hopefully I can retain a friendship with both parties if possible.
anyway, my objection is only to ill thought out angst. well constructed angst is a wonderful thing. I should know, I'm trying to make a career out of it!
+ Aidan, I did actually look out for you at Scritti, just on the off chance. I thought of texting you but there's no reception down there. will have to do the Liverpool OMD thing though.
I was really delighted to see the replies to my message. I'm aware that the first couple were quite defensive, but they didn't need to be, as I wasn't particularly having a go at either of you. I have no problem at all with how Louise has handled her lj regarding her split. I deliberately didn't want to mention any names in my message. my problem was more with the people who didn't know the situation at all but then went and offered their judgement on it anyway.
as it happens, MOWH hasn't bitched to me at all. he's been the same post split as pre split really, ie not talking about it. I'm actually quite neutral on the whole thing. 2 good people who have upset each other in a most unfortunate way, that's all it is to me. hopefully I can retain a friendship with both parties if possible.
anyway, my objection is only to ill thought out angst. well constructed angst is a wonderful thing. I should know, I'm trying to make a career out of it!
+ Aidan, I did actually look out for you at Scritti, just on the off chance. I thought of texting you but there's no reception down there. will have to do the Liverpool OMD thing though.