If you'd like a space to discuss my character with me, here it is. I'm fine with both 'face-on' comments and anonymous. Anon-commenting is on, screening is on, IP logging is off.
Cindy says: "I'm driving a pumpkin coach. If you didn't want to nearly get hit, you shouldn't have been walking on the sidewalk when I was driving on it."
Karla says: "I'm a Queen. I'll drive where ever the Hell I want."
I say: "Thanks, anon. I'm always happy to thread, so feel free! I'm glad you feel that way and as for my canon--you should, but please know, I AM NOT EMPHASIZING THE CRACK. SRSLY."
I've been debating whether or not to say anything, but as someone who's just been watching lately, I figured this is what an HMD is for. No offense is meant by this, and I say this as someone who really loved your character and want to be constructive rather than seem mean
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So, first of all, I want to thank you for deciding to ping me anyway. I'm glad for concrit and this didn't come off at all like a personal attack, just you sharing some legit fears. You're raising a lot of valid points and I hope you feel free to come to my HMD anytime you have concerns
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Again, please don't take any of the stuff I just explained as an excuse for anything, it's not meant to be one. I just wanted to make clear that it's not a desire to avoid problematic threads that's causing me to drop threads, it's a combination of several things. I have no problem with people telling Karla that she's wrong when she is (and often doing my best to point out that I don't agree with her in narrative and tone), but the past few months have not been the best for me and RP in general.
As for being insensitive to Topher, first of all, I want to apologize for making you uncomfortable. Karla's comment was meant to convey that she has no experience at all with the autism spectrum. She doesn't understand that it's a real issue; in her mind, Topher is being insensitive because he can be, not because he doesn't understand how social interaction works. So when Ender invoked her being a Black Widow (a mind-Healer, if you don't know the canon), that's what Karla jumped to because she had no other point of reference. I absolutely
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I'm not trying to derail the conversation here or sound like I'm making an accusation, but could you please explain how you know what the first anon's point was? All comments on my HMD are screened and then immediately rescreened upon replying.
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Karla says: "I'm a Queen. I'll drive where ever the Hell I want."
I say: "Thanks, anon. I'm always happy to thread, so feel free! I'm glad you feel that way and as for my canon--you should, but please know, I AM NOT EMPHASIZING THE CRACK. SRSLY."
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As for being insensitive to Topher, first of all, I want to apologize for making you uncomfortable. Karla's comment was meant to convey that she has no experience at all with the autism spectrum. She doesn't understand that it's a real issue; in her mind, Topher is being insensitive because he can be, not because he doesn't understand how social interaction works. So when Ender invoked her being a Black Widow (a mind-Healer, if you don't know the canon), that's what Karla jumped to because she had no other point of reference. I absolutely ( ... )
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