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Dear Aubrey,
I know you like to post things about ppl, and then delete all the valid responses you get from your posts. So I'm taking the liberty of pasting your post and some of the replies on my own journal so ppl can actually get the whole story instead of just your misconstrued perception of it.
Here is Aubrey's post:
So, it's completely immature and stupid to post this on MYSPACE, but I feel like it's a last resort. When I'm in your presence, and you're in mine, we don't talk, and I don't feel like I've given the chance to talk, so here is what I have to say...
We've had problems in the past. We all know this. But I'm Grant's girlfriend, and all of you are Grant's friends.
We must coexist, until, for some reason, this situation changes.
I've TRIED many times to talk to you. I try to make small talk, and stupid jokes to break the barrier and try to put the bullshit past behind us. Maybe I have a really soft voice, but most of the time my voice goes unnoticed. And most of the time, I feel my presences goes unnoticed, if not ignored on purpose.
Sure, you hear things that I say. Words get misconstrued. Sure, you don't trust me because of the past, but let me tell you this...
I DO NOT LIE.
If I have said something about you, and you hear about it, and come up to me and actually asked me if I said it, I will full on completely admitt that I said it. I'm not a pansy who is going to say one thing and deny it the next day.
Please stop assuming that rumors and words spread amongst many people are true.
Another thing, I'm not against your band. I think you guys are really great. If you don't notice, I dance and sing at your shows, when I feel comfortable enough to show my face. I completely support you and what you wanna do with the band.
The only thing I don't support is trying to make it a lifetime job. I'm a firm believer of having a back-up plan. Relying on luck of getting signed is not good. And I do think that maybe someday you will get signed. No doubt. And that is what I meant a long time ago on Livejournal.
Last night was one of the worst nights that I've had in a long time. I felt completely ignored, and usually, I just ignored how uncomfortable I feel, but last night, it finally took its toll. I broke down and cried for TWO HOURS. I just want us to coexist and be able to joke and make jokes with each other.
I'm tired of being an odd man out.
And I can't even begin to cope how bad Grant must feel to have a girlfriend that most of his friends don't like.
I'M NOT A BAD PERSON.
but you make me feel like I talked shit like none other, then asked you to hang out and called you my best friend.
you make me feel like i killed your parents.
you make me feel like i stole money from you and lied.
you make me feel like a horrible person...
and I don't deserve it, and I don't think you deserve having to feel uncomfortable around me.
ALL OF THIS BULLSHIT IS COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY.
and now a valid reply that Aubrey so conveniently deleted:
Aubrey,
It really saddens me that you feel myspace is the last resort. BUt honestly it just goes to show you how you deal with all these stupid situations.
I am only responding to this because here everyone can know what I think; unless you delete it since thats what you do so often when someone makes a valid point in contradiction to you. You want an audience.... well I wont hold anything back. Drama makes the ratings higher anyways right?
First of al I am so tired of hearing no one gives you a chance. Thats all I or anyone else has done. Not only do I think its incredibly rude to always point out "EVERYONE IGNORES ME AND ARE SO MEAN TO ME" and then everyone hears about it the next day, in either a blog or sometimes a lovely morning message in our inbox. Why does it always have to be someone else's fault? It's pretty ironic that you think many of us treat you like this. There isn't a conspiracy against you of "lets all get together and pick on Aubrey". Heres the thing I didnt even have to give you a chance. You dated my boyfriend and on top of that you were rude straight from the get go with me. Don't think I've forgotten how you acted when you were at my house the very first time or how you glared at me from across the parking lot at the Motion City Soundtrack show one year ago. You apologized, I let it go.... Because frankly I figure dit was probably a bit out of jealousy or whatever. Then there was the pleasant blog a month after that about me and chris and how he basically was repeating everything over with me and how I better watch my back. But obviously it wasn't a repeat because I didnt end up stripping down naked in front of his friends while the guy I "cared" so much for was down the street thinking of ways to break it off with you. But you know what that doesnt even matter because thats over now... the summer came and then went and it didnt matter anymore. I was happy and content with my life and the past was the past. Im only bringing this up now so you know I have given you chances.... After all that you started to be whatever with Josh. Drama happned. Then shortly after that you started dating Grant. Okay ironic, weird but whatever. HOwever, I do remember you posting some pretty harsh livejournal posts around this time and about all of us and how the "heart-crew" and Romance boys and "girl"... now why should we come out and talk up a storm with you right after reading an open to the public bashing on our characters? So we talked all let go once again... But it never stops its the same damn circle with you. One minute everythings fine the next we are reading about like its the mornings paper. Its a pretty ignorant and annoying trend.
You not only offended us on numerous times, perhaps theres the link to us not giving YOU chances. But what is also funny is you had some exact problems with your last group of friends. ANd I believe they were also tired with the constant bitching about how they are not good friends via blogs and Lj Posts. You also wrote an entire shitty entry about the band. But now you've taken that back claiming you just meant they should have a back up plan. Sorry but I find that to be complete bullshit. Aubrey, you compared their life dream and goals to you making cheese for a living. That is probably the biggest insult you could even do. That is another reason why I think you saying you meant nothing by it is a load of bullshit. You were mad because Grant wasn't spending enough time with you and its the bands fault... I was so fired up when i saw that post, I was ready to ignore you completely, and you are lucky I did not see you that day. But I decided to be nice and write you explaining that although the band is time consuming and difficult, your boyfriend is an amazing musician and you should support him. (Especially if you love him) Your response to me however was rude and snide. But let me guess you didnt mean it in that way. You never do.
Heres the thing Aubrey Ive given you plenty of chances. I dont know how many more you want. But you've burnt too many bridges. Im sorry you cried for two hours. But you totally did this to yourself. I mean after all it was YOU who deleted us all off your "Friends" list and then wrote a shitty blog saying you were done with us. So sorry but how else were we suppost to respond to you? Whats even funnier is that Chris and I were on spring break and hadnt seen you in like two weeks and had no clue what was going on when we returned and was informed to what happend.
Im sorry you feel like an odd man out, however you make yourself that way. You say we make you feel like a horrible person, but all you've been able to do is point a finger at us saying how much of a problem we all are.
YOu are right we need to co-exist because you are Grant's girlfriend. But I dont have to like you. And as far as I am concerned I dont. I've tried too many times and I dont know what else to do. And lets face it you dont like me either. I dont have to be mean to you and I wont, I honestly have never been, although I do realize this "reply" is. But I think you needed to know a few things. As I was saying, I dont have to be mean to you, but Im not going to put on a fake smile and pretend that you and I are okay and then find a shitty blog about me the next day. Im done with it.
.... and youre right this bullshit is completey unnecessary
another one:
joey romance
dude ive been nothing but nice to you from day one.yes this past month ive stoped talking to you because im sick of your shit and the only reason i can even stand being around you without telling you what i think of you, is because your boyfriend is one of my best friends.im done with all your 12 yearold little girl drama i think its all bullshit,so im done with it. i dont want anything to do with you and your drama.
p.s. i think they have medication for people like you
Aubrey...
Not everyone has to like you. In fact I know that we all don't. You've had chance after chance. You blew it. We're tired of the immature games you play and the drama that you continually start. You're a bitch. We don't have to like you. You've done nothing to us to make us like you. Deal with it. Life is full of ppl that aren't going to like you or want to be your friends. Half of the Indianapolis scene hates me. I don't care though. I'm proud of who I am and what I stand for. I'd give my life in a heartbeat for any one of my friends. But you are not on that list. Please leave us alone. You are not welcome around me or my girlfriend or my brother or my bass player. If you do find yourself in a situation where you must coexist with us, please don't bother talking to us. Don't bother coming near us. We're just going to be assholes from now on. You've complained this whole time about things we do to you without having reason to. Well now, we'll give you plenty of reasons.
Oh, and good luck trying to delete this so no one sees what you've really done.
Also, everyone who made it this far into this post, feel free to comment on the situation. Have a problem with miss Aubrey? Tell her. I'm sure she's reading this and crying.
I'm done being nice. I'm done trying to explain things. If this makes me an ass, I really don't care.
I hate to fight immaturity with immaturity, but after one year of puting up with this shit, what the hell am I supposed to do?
I know you like to post things about ppl, and then delete all the valid responses you get from your posts. So I'm taking the liberty of pasting your post and some of the replies on my own journal so ppl can actually get the whole story instead of just your misconstrued perception of it.
Here is Aubrey's post:
So, it's completely immature and stupid to post this on MYSPACE, but I feel like it's a last resort. When I'm in your presence, and you're in mine, we don't talk, and I don't feel like I've given the chance to talk, so here is what I have to say...
We've had problems in the past. We all know this. But I'm Grant's girlfriend, and all of you are Grant's friends.
We must coexist, until, for some reason, this situation changes.
I've TRIED many times to talk to you. I try to make small talk, and stupid jokes to break the barrier and try to put the bullshit past behind us. Maybe I have a really soft voice, but most of the time my voice goes unnoticed. And most of the time, I feel my presences goes unnoticed, if not ignored on purpose.
Sure, you hear things that I say. Words get misconstrued. Sure, you don't trust me because of the past, but let me tell you this...
I DO NOT LIE.
If I have said something about you, and you hear about it, and come up to me and actually asked me if I said it, I will full on completely admitt that I said it. I'm not a pansy who is going to say one thing and deny it the next day.
Please stop assuming that rumors and words spread amongst many people are true.
Another thing, I'm not against your band. I think you guys are really great. If you don't notice, I dance and sing at your shows, when I feel comfortable enough to show my face. I completely support you and what you wanna do with the band.
The only thing I don't support is trying to make it a lifetime job. I'm a firm believer of having a back-up plan. Relying on luck of getting signed is not good. And I do think that maybe someday you will get signed. No doubt. And that is what I meant a long time ago on Livejournal.
Last night was one of the worst nights that I've had in a long time. I felt completely ignored, and usually, I just ignored how uncomfortable I feel, but last night, it finally took its toll. I broke down and cried for TWO HOURS. I just want us to coexist and be able to joke and make jokes with each other.
I'm tired of being an odd man out.
And I can't even begin to cope how bad Grant must feel to have a girlfriend that most of his friends don't like.
I'M NOT A BAD PERSON.
but you make me feel like I talked shit like none other, then asked you to hang out and called you my best friend.
you make me feel like i killed your parents.
you make me feel like i stole money from you and lied.
you make me feel like a horrible person...
and I don't deserve it, and I don't think you deserve having to feel uncomfortable around me.
ALL OF THIS BULLSHIT IS COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY.
and now a valid reply that Aubrey so conveniently deleted:
Aubrey,
It really saddens me that you feel myspace is the last resort. BUt honestly it just goes to show you how you deal with all these stupid situations.
I am only responding to this because here everyone can know what I think; unless you delete it since thats what you do so often when someone makes a valid point in contradiction to you. You want an audience.... well I wont hold anything back. Drama makes the ratings higher anyways right?
First of al I am so tired of hearing no one gives you a chance. Thats all I or anyone else has done. Not only do I think its incredibly rude to always point out "EVERYONE IGNORES ME AND ARE SO MEAN TO ME" and then everyone hears about it the next day, in either a blog or sometimes a lovely morning message in our inbox. Why does it always have to be someone else's fault? It's pretty ironic that you think many of us treat you like this. There isn't a conspiracy against you of "lets all get together and pick on Aubrey". Heres the thing I didnt even have to give you a chance. You dated my boyfriend and on top of that you were rude straight from the get go with me. Don't think I've forgotten how you acted when you were at my house the very first time or how you glared at me from across the parking lot at the Motion City Soundtrack show one year ago. You apologized, I let it go.... Because frankly I figure dit was probably a bit out of jealousy or whatever. Then there was the pleasant blog a month after that about me and chris and how he basically was repeating everything over with me and how I better watch my back. But obviously it wasn't a repeat because I didnt end up stripping down naked in front of his friends while the guy I "cared" so much for was down the street thinking of ways to break it off with you. But you know what that doesnt even matter because thats over now... the summer came and then went and it didnt matter anymore. I was happy and content with my life and the past was the past. Im only bringing this up now so you know I have given you chances.... After all that you started to be whatever with Josh. Drama happned. Then shortly after that you started dating Grant. Okay ironic, weird but whatever. HOwever, I do remember you posting some pretty harsh livejournal posts around this time and about all of us and how the "heart-crew" and Romance boys and "girl"... now why should we come out and talk up a storm with you right after reading an open to the public bashing on our characters? So we talked all let go once again... But it never stops its the same damn circle with you. One minute everythings fine the next we are reading about like its the mornings paper. Its a pretty ignorant and annoying trend.
You not only offended us on numerous times, perhaps theres the link to us not giving YOU chances. But what is also funny is you had some exact problems with your last group of friends. ANd I believe they were also tired with the constant bitching about how they are not good friends via blogs and Lj Posts. You also wrote an entire shitty entry about the band. But now you've taken that back claiming you just meant they should have a back up plan. Sorry but I find that to be complete bullshit. Aubrey, you compared their life dream and goals to you making cheese for a living. That is probably the biggest insult you could even do. That is another reason why I think you saying you meant nothing by it is a load of bullshit. You were mad because Grant wasn't spending enough time with you and its the bands fault... I was so fired up when i saw that post, I was ready to ignore you completely, and you are lucky I did not see you that day. But I decided to be nice and write you explaining that although the band is time consuming and difficult, your boyfriend is an amazing musician and you should support him. (Especially if you love him) Your response to me however was rude and snide. But let me guess you didnt mean it in that way. You never do.
Heres the thing Aubrey Ive given you plenty of chances. I dont know how many more you want. But you've burnt too many bridges. Im sorry you cried for two hours. But you totally did this to yourself. I mean after all it was YOU who deleted us all off your "Friends" list and then wrote a shitty blog saying you were done with us. So sorry but how else were we suppost to respond to you? Whats even funnier is that Chris and I were on spring break and hadnt seen you in like two weeks and had no clue what was going on when we returned and was informed to what happend.
Im sorry you feel like an odd man out, however you make yourself that way. You say we make you feel like a horrible person, but all you've been able to do is point a finger at us saying how much of a problem we all are.
YOu are right we need to co-exist because you are Grant's girlfriend. But I dont have to like you. And as far as I am concerned I dont. I've tried too many times and I dont know what else to do. And lets face it you dont like me either. I dont have to be mean to you and I wont, I honestly have never been, although I do realize this "reply" is. But I think you needed to know a few things. As I was saying, I dont have to be mean to you, but Im not going to put on a fake smile and pretend that you and I are okay and then find a shitty blog about me the next day. Im done with it.
.... and youre right this bullshit is completey unnecessary
another one:
joey romance
dude ive been nothing but nice to you from day one.yes this past month ive stoped talking to you because im sick of your shit and the only reason i can even stand being around you without telling you what i think of you, is because your boyfriend is one of my best friends.im done with all your 12 yearold little girl drama i think its all bullshit,so im done with it. i dont want anything to do with you and your drama.
p.s. i think they have medication for people like you
Aubrey...
Not everyone has to like you. In fact I know that we all don't. You've had chance after chance. You blew it. We're tired of the immature games you play and the drama that you continually start. You're a bitch. We don't have to like you. You've done nothing to us to make us like you. Deal with it. Life is full of ppl that aren't going to like you or want to be your friends. Half of the Indianapolis scene hates me. I don't care though. I'm proud of who I am and what I stand for. I'd give my life in a heartbeat for any one of my friends. But you are not on that list. Please leave us alone. You are not welcome around me or my girlfriend or my brother or my bass player. If you do find yourself in a situation where you must coexist with us, please don't bother talking to us. Don't bother coming near us. We're just going to be assholes from now on. You've complained this whole time about things we do to you without having reason to. Well now, we'll give you plenty of reasons.
Oh, and good luck trying to delete this so no one sees what you've really done.
Also, everyone who made it this far into this post, feel free to comment on the situation. Have a problem with miss Aubrey? Tell her. I'm sure she's reading this and crying.
I'm done being nice. I'm done trying to explain things. If this makes me an ass, I really don't care.
I hate to fight immaturity with immaturity, but after one year of puting up with this shit, what the hell am I supposed to do?