Jaded
Some people are so selfish... i dont even know how they can be like that. I know I couldn't.
edit: i thought i'd elaborate to avoid confusion. Firstly, a 'friend' of ours is going to see GC on friday. And you know, even though I wanted to go more than anything else in the world i was happy for her. yes, it got a bit annoying when she constantly bragged about it but I thought, y'know, I won't say anything because she's just happy she's going and I don't wanna spoil it, and I should be happy for her. Which I was.
Then I find out that she has also booked tickets to see GC perform on cd:uk. This would have been fine except she didnt even tell her so-called best friends (who she knows full well want to see GC more than anything) that tickets were on sale until there was none left. So now we can't get tickets. If she'd only told us we could have gone.
Now this is pretty bad in itself but I could have forgiven that. Like she could have just been excited and forgotton about us or something. But then a girl on BMMB made a post saying she had some spare tickets for a gig GC are doing at Alton Towers. If i had been in my 'friends' position I would have thought i'm going to TWO gc gigs in a week, and I know how much my best friends want to go to one, so I'll tell them about the tickets and see if they want to go. But did she do that? Did she fuck. No, instead she PM'd the girl and asked for the tickets FOR HERSELF. Now, please correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that a tad selfish? That she's now going to THREE fucking gigs and we're not going to ANY. We could have easily got to Alton Towers, and she wouldnt have really missed out as she's seeing GC twice anyway. Plus Charlie was offering the tickets to ANYONE, it wasnt like they were personally given to her, it was just that she got there first. But I guess people just care more about themselves than their best friends.
And THAT could well be the reason why they find it so hard to stay friends. Because a friendship involves a group of people, not just one.
edit: i thought i'd elaborate to avoid confusion. Firstly, a 'friend' of ours is going to see GC on friday. And you know, even though I wanted to go more than anything else in the world i was happy for her. yes, it got a bit annoying when she constantly bragged about it but I thought, y'know, I won't say anything because she's just happy she's going and I don't wanna spoil it, and I should be happy for her. Which I was.
Then I find out that she has also booked tickets to see GC perform on cd:uk. This would have been fine except she didnt even tell her so-called best friends (who she knows full well want to see GC more than anything) that tickets were on sale until there was none left. So now we can't get tickets. If she'd only told us we could have gone.
Now this is pretty bad in itself but I could have forgiven that. Like she could have just been excited and forgotton about us or something. But then a girl on BMMB made a post saying she had some spare tickets for a gig GC are doing at Alton Towers. If i had been in my 'friends' position I would have thought i'm going to TWO gc gigs in a week, and I know how much my best friends want to go to one, so I'll tell them about the tickets and see if they want to go. But did she do that? Did she fuck. No, instead she PM'd the girl and asked for the tickets FOR HERSELF. Now, please correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that a tad selfish? That she's now going to THREE fucking gigs and we're not going to ANY. We could have easily got to Alton Towers, and she wouldnt have really missed out as she's seeing GC twice anyway. Plus Charlie was offering the tickets to ANYONE, it wasnt like they were personally given to her, it was just that she got there first. But I guess people just care more about themselves than their best friends.
And THAT could well be the reason why they find it so hard to stay friends. Because a friendship involves a group of people, not just one.